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How to Make Shampoo, Plus Conditioner and Detangler

Posted by Kelly Hair, Natural Beauty 44 comments
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I wish someone earlier in my life had told me how easy it is to make shampoo, conditioner, and detangler.

For some hair types, working through and rinsing baking soda (as a de-greaser and cleanser) and spraying apple cider vinegar (as a conditioning agent) and rinsing during a shower makes their hair shiny and beautiful. But this is very bad for your hair in the long term. Baking soda is good for clarifying your hair, but it can tear your hair if used more often than once per month. Using apple cider vinegar as a conditioner is fabulous BUT you must dilute it, otherwise you’re just making the pH of your hair too acidic instead of bringing it back to neutral, causing additional damage.

How to Make Shampoo, Conditioner, and Detangler with natural ingredients

The recipe for Shampoo #1 below has actually worked the best on my hair, leaving it bouncy and not frizzy.  For those of you with more normal hair that tends to get oily quickly, the method below may work

Detangler #1

  • 1 cup water
  • 1 teaspoon aloe vera gel
  • 10 drops lemon essential oil
  • 5 drops lavender essential oil
  • 1-2 drops glycerin

Mix all ingredients together and pour into a spray bottle.

Detangler #2

  • 1 cup water
  • 2 Tbsp coconut oil
  • 1 Tbsp jojoba oil
  • 5-10 drops of essential oil of your choice

Mix and add to spray bottle.  I like this recipe.  It’s basically oil and water so make sure you shake really well before use.

Liquid Shampoo #1

  • 2 oz (half a bar) of homemade soap that you like, grated
  • 1 cup hot water
  • 1 tsp olive oil
  • 1 tsp glycerin (optional, added as a thickening agent)
  • 10 drops essential oil of your choice

Mix grated soap in hot water until soap is fully dissolved.

How to Make Shampoo, Conditioner, and Detangler with natural ingredients
How to Make Shampoo, Conditioner, and Detangler with natural ingredients

Mix in oils and glycerin.  Pour into spray bottle.  Shake before use.

How to Make Shampoo, Conditioner, and Detangler with natural ingredients

Liquid Shampoo #2

Ingredients:

  • 1/4 cup coconut milk (or water, or herbal tea)
  • 1/3 cup liquid soap
  • 20 drops of Essential Oils of choice

Directions:

For dry hair: add 1/2 tsp olive or almond oil (optional)

  1. Combine all ingredients in an old shampoo bottle or jar of some kind (pump soap dispensers and even foaming dispensers work well for this. If you use a foaming dispenser, add 1/4 cup of distilled water)
  2. Shake well to mix.
  3. Keep in shower for up to a month.
  4. Shake before each use.
  5. Use about a teaspoon every time you shampoo.
  6. If you use a foaming dispenser, it also makes a great shaving cream. Just dilute with 1/4 cup water

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Here are some additional tips to help specific hair problems. Use some of the ingredients mentioned to change your hair situation. For example, to brighten normal hair, work a raw egg into your hair before washing.

For dry hair: Coconut oil, banana, avocado, olive oil
For normal hair:  egg, olive oil
For oily hair: Add a little lemon juice (1 to 2 teaspoons) to the products for normal hair

Other methods for various problems:

Dull Hair: rub the juice from 1 lemon mixed with 1 cup water into your hair. Rinse.
Hair spray and Gel Build Up: 1 tablespoon baking soda mixed with 1 cup water. Work into hair and then rinse.
No body, dull: 1/2 cup vinegar mixed with 2 cups water. Spray into hair after washing. Rinse.
Odor such as smoke: 1 cup of tomato juice. Work through your hair and then wash out.

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About Kelly

Kelly is the author of number one best seller The Natural Soap Making Book for Beginners and Easy Soap Making. She's also written multiple ebooks on herbal remedies and natural bath and body DIYs.Her journey toward better health has inspired her to make things in and around the home from scratch, start a homestead, and become more resourceful when it comes to health and home.She shares her recipes and DIYs here on Simple Life Mom and has a shop where she sells products for those who would rather buy than make (SimpleLifeMom.com/shop).

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  • soulofspice
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    November 16, 2012 at 5:25 PM

    As an au naturel girl I love to read about homemade shampoos, I just moved away completely from hair gels, and sprays to a complete coconut oil + castor oil mix & my hair thanks me every day! look forward to readin more of your posts

    • simplelifemom
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      November 16, 2012 at 5:46 PM

      Thank you! I’ve read a lot about the benefits of castor oil – especially in soap making. I am using some coconut oil in my hair now, but had not thought of the combination. What a great idea!

      • Newly Homemade
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        July 24, 2014 at 11:05 PM

        How are you combining the castor oil and coconut oil? My daughter has dry, thick brownish blonde hair. I am continuously searching for products that give her hair some sheen. I am going to try the shampoo with coconut milk. I am also going to experiment with detangler recipe #2.

        • Kelly
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          July 25, 2014 at 6:54 AM

          You have to shake it before each use. The spray bottle is great with some hair (though it clumps during the winter due to the coconut hardening so we use it in the summer). I also like to just put a little on my hands and apply it.

  • becky6259
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    November 16, 2012 at 7:08 PM

    Some of these methods look pretty inexpensive–I’m not that much into everything being natural so much as I am saving money–going to give some of these things a try and see how they work. Thanks for posting your recipes!

    • simplelifemom
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      November 17, 2012 at 1:58 AM

      Hey, if you can find something that works good on your hair, it is well worth it, financially speaking. Hope you enjoy.

  • Jennifer Bilyeu
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    January 20, 2013 at 2:52 AM

    I am so excited since reading your page!! I am the only woman in a house full of MEN! My husband is 37 and is stuck on his “store” shampoo and soap. The ages of my other boys are 17, 17, 16, 14, 11, and 1 year. The older ones are like their dad, but I am hoping to conver the 11 year old and the 1 year old to using “homemade” stuff. Your site is such a money saver, and I would love for the baby to grow up using “natural” products. Your ideas and recipes are fantastic, and I thank you so much for taking the time to share them with the rest of us! God bless you, and I look forward to more of your posts!

    • simplelifemom
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      January 20, 2013 at 11:14 PM

      I am so glad the things I have posted so far have been helpful. Hey, my husband used to only eat Jiffy pb. He swore he would not eat any of my natural whatever. I simply stopped buying certain things (little by little) and he got used to it. Recently he tried the sugar full peanut butter and couldn’t eat it! He said it was too sweet. Things change over time. 🙂

  • Sharon
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    April 8, 2013 at 8:38 PM

    I am interested in trying the Shampoo #1. What kind of bar soap do you use with it? Thanks.

    • simplelifemom
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      April 8, 2013 at 11:23 PM

      Any natural bar. Olive oil or Castille tends to be thinner. Just remember that your scalp needs time to adjust to not being stripped of its oils so you may go through a two week oily stage. Mine wasn’t bad, but I had some bad hair days.

  • Kate
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    April 21, 2013 at 8:49 PM

    The Detangler #2 recipe is fantastic! I was looking for something that doesn’t contain conditioner (we don’t use that and so don’t have it on hand) or marshmallow root (only available online). I made up a batch of this (I added a little bit of vegetable glycerin to help it emulsify and I like the result) and it made my hair lovely. I can’t wait to give it to my daughter for her fifth birthday in a few days! Thanks so much!

  • Julee Waldhart
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    September 10, 2013 at 7:19 PM

    I made a shampoo using Castle soap and coconut milk and Vit E. My hair is very fine and moderately long. After shampooing, my hair felt sticky. What is causing that?

    • simplelifemom
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      September 11, 2013 at 10:25 PM

      “Sticky” is something I’m not familiar with. Oily, greasy, dry, etc., but sticky? I’m not sure what happened.

      • Coco
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        November 5, 2013 at 1:19 AM

        Whenever I use Castle soap I always follow up with a vinegar rinse to get the softness back in hair.

        • simplelifemom
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          November 5, 2013 at 9:39 AM

          Yes, I use half red wine vinegar, half water in a spray bottle.

    • Michekk
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      February 2, 2014 at 11:35 PM

      Hard water can cause the filmy, sticky feeling in your hair when using the recipe you’re referring to. I have hard water and my hair felt the same. I had to rewash my hair with the store-bought stuff until I can find another that i’d like to try.

      • Michell
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        February 2, 2014 at 11:37 PM

        My name is Michell, not Michekk! Sorry bout that!

      • Simple Life Mom
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        February 2, 2014 at 11:43 PM

        Actually, just try half vinegar, half water spritzed into your hair after washing and it will smooth it out. You can also try a strangled to help with smoothness.

  • isleofazure
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    October 20, 2013 at 1:22 AM

    Just found this page, i am in love with your recipes, they are fantastic!!!! Will try them and let you know my progress.Smile!!!

    • simplelifemom
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      October 20, 2013 at 3:55 AM

      Great! Let me know if you have any questions and I will do my best to help.

      • isleofazure
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        October 21, 2013 at 3:38 AM

        Ok then thanks, will do. Take care!!!!
        Smiles!!!!

  • Michell
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    February 2, 2014 at 11:43 PM

    I’ve just discovered your blog via Pinterest and I’m enjoying it. I’m looking forward to making and trying detangler #2 tomorrow. Yay! Thank you!

    • Simple Life Mom
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      February 2, 2014 at 11:52 PM

      Great! Let us know how it goes. Everyone’s hair is different, but it’s awesome to find something natural that works with your hair.:-)

  • Ordell
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    December 21, 2014 at 5:58 PM

    I will be trying the Detangler #2 tomorrow. One question: Should it be rinsed out or left in? I look forward to your reply

    • Kelly
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      December 21, 2014 at 6:53 PM

      You leave it in so use very little at first to see how much works well with your hair. Remember to shake it vigorously before spraying.

  • Ordell
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    January 3, 2015 at 1:50 PM

    After several uses, I finally figured out I didn’t need much of Detangler #2. I’m THRILLED with the results. It works beautifully and my hair looks better than usual. I have long thin hair which previously was a problem to detangle and, thus, I lost lots of hair. FINALLY, thanks to you, I’ve found a solution. I no longer dread washing my hair!

    Thanks a MILLION for the recipe. I’m a happy camper!

    • Kelly
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      January 3, 2015 at 2:40 PM

      Yea!! That’s so wonderful to hear. Thank you for coming back and telling us 🙂

  • Patty
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    March 10, 2016 at 12:40 PM

    hello,
    This may sound like a simple to figure out, question however, I wanted to know how you cure the shampoo #3. Do you leave in the glass container with a cover on it, like plastic wrap or what. Thank you so much for your wonderful info and sharing of recipes, etc. I have been making soap bars, whipped shea butter, deodorant, etc but I wanted a very easy shampoo recipe and yours is the one I want to try. I only make my products for family, friends and gifts. I don’t want to sell it. I read and watch youtube vids and never get enough of it. The more I find out, the more I want to know.
    Patty in NH

    • Kelly
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      March 14, 2016 at 6:54 PM

      Hi Patty, I’ve been away for a few days. Sorry I’m just getting back to you. You will make this soap like you would cold process soap; in the mold of your choice. I suggest leaving it in that mold for a longer period of time because soap made with potash is softer. My grandmother used to have a tin that they poured it in and left it there to scoop out as needed for laundry, dishes, etc. You can do that as well, making sure to give it time to cure first.

  • jen
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    April 2, 2016 at 11:28 PM

    A month or so back you had a pin on pinterest. Of a detox hair soak. I did the recipe and now I’m no poo. My mom want to try but I can’t find that pin. It had Epson salt apple cider vineger. Baking soda. Can you email me.

    • Kelly
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      April 3, 2016 at 9:08 AM

      I have these and a set of herbal hair rinses. Otherwise you may have gotten it from a different site. If you remember the ingredients, I’d say make up some proportions and go for it!
      Here’s my herbal hair rinse post: https://simplelifemom.com/2013/09/28/10-herbal-organic-hair-rinses/

  • Heather
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    February 22, 2017 at 8:44 PM

    Would the fractionated coconut oil work or would you recommend a different type?

    • Kelly
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      February 22, 2017 at 9:02 PM

      Yes, definitely.

  • Carol
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    January 10, 2018 at 2:23 PM

    Lots of information here. I enjoyed the variation of shampoo recipes that you offered.

  • Teresa
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    February 7, 2019 at 12:13 PM

    Hello, I’m at the Very beginning of trying to convert some things to natural. So, thank u 4 all ur info. I have a question, as I’ve recently read for several hours on dimithicone in haircare/skincare & found out that the only way (scientifically) to get all the dimithicone build up out/off your hair, is with a “clarifying” shampoo. Even baking soda & vinegar won’t touch it. I know, bcuz I’ve tried. However, I don’t want to spend the money on Another bottle of shampoo with all the sulfates & junk in it. So, what is your understanding & recommendation for getting all the build up off & out of your hair for someone just starting out N trying to go all natural route. Thank u!!

    • Kelly
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      February 8, 2019 at 3:56 AM

      No, I don’t like those clarifying shampoos either. Sorry, I can’t help besides the baking soda vinegar method you said you already tried. Are you sure what you’re feeling in your hair is a buildup and not minerals binding to your hair? It’s all about ph and ions when it comes to hair and if your water is hard it can make it feel like an ingredient is weighing down your hair when it is minerals from the water. Just another thought to possibly help you solve the mystery.

  • Marijke goderis
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    May 24, 2020 at 4:44 AM

    Goodmorning,

    I have been trying different things for my boyfriend’s long, fine, greasy hair. I have made the conditioner bars but he doesn’t like them because his hair is very tangled. I have tried the second detangler recipe but that makes his hair very greasy….So I am looking for a good combination for his hair. I have made the nettle shampoo bars now and would it be a good combination for him to rinse with apple cider vinegar as conditioner or do you have other advice? He also has quite a bit of dandruff…

    • Kelly
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      May 30, 2020 at 7:58 PM

      Make sure to dilute the acv by 50% with water. A good shampoo bar and acv rinse may be what’s needed. Dandruff can be caused from many things. Check out this post: https://simplelifemom.com/2014/05/26/natural-dandruff-remedy/

  • Rohan
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    June 21, 2024 at 5:39 AM

    There is a ton of information here. I liked how you provided a variety of shampoo recipes.

  • Ash Kamthe
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    November 26, 2024 at 2:54 AM

    Hello Kelly,
    Thank you for sharing amazing recipes. I have few queries regarding liquid base conditioner and shampoo.

    1. Dose this need preservative?
    2. For how long these shampoo and conditioner will last without preservative?
    3. Is there any natural preservative which can be used in water based recipe and what is caution we need to take?

    Thank you !

    • Kelly
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      November 26, 2024 at 8:03 AM

      Good question. I find that this recipe lasts 2-3 months at most. I’ve never had any problem with bacterial growth, only oil oxidation from water in contact with oils. Adding a few drops of rosemary can slow the oxidation process. Keeping it sealed and cool can also help. It’ll get a musty scent when the oils start to go bad.

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