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7 Easy Steps to Homemade Soap for Beginners

Posted by Kelly Handmade Soap, Soap Instructions and Ideas 121 comments
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Handmade or homemade soap made from scratch with lye and oils is true, natural soap. Homemade soap is a great way to be in control of what is going on your family’s skin and thus, into their bodies.

When I first looked into soap making, I felt like I had information overload. It took me a while to read about it before I decided I was ready to make my first batch.

Information is here, there, and everywhere, but not much of it is as detailed or step by step as I would have liked. Now, years later, I’m super glad to be able to put together these 7 Easy Steps to Homemade Soap for Beginners. It may seem difficult at first, but once you do it once or twice, you’ll realize that it’s really not that big of a deal…and can be super fun and addicting.

7 Easy Steps to Homemade Soap for Beginners - with lye and from scratch.

Of course you can always try 100% Natural Soap bars from my Shop as well.

How to Make Homemade Soap

Before we get started, I wanted to let you know that I have 2 paperback soap making books available in book stores.

The Natural Soapmaking Book for Beginners by Kelly Cable -Homemade Soap for Beginners

Natural Soap Making Book for Beginners – cold process, natural coloring, herbs, hot process and melt and pour explained, plus so much more. VERY thorough.

Easy Soap Making by Kelly Cable - Homemade Soap for Beginners

Easy Soap Making – melt and pour and hand-milling, with some cold process. Simple recipes and steps.

Quick Summary:

Soap making can be boiled down to these 10 steps:

  1. Weigh and melt your fats in a large pot.
  2. Weigh the lye in a zip close bag and weigh your water into a plastic container. Go OUTSIDE and slowly pour lye into container of weighed water and stir with stainless steel spoon. Important!!! Don’t pour the water into the lye. Pour the lye into the water (more below)
  3. Prepare mold (add wax paper if necessary)
  4. Weigh essential oils according to recipe, set aside.
  5. When fats and lye both reach about 90° F, pour lye into pot of oil and stir.
  6. Use stick blender on and off for 5 minutes, stir by hand 5 minutes, etc. on and off until trace.
  7. Add essential oils and any natural coloring agents or textures, stir very well.
  8. Pour into mold and insulate for 24 hours.
  9. Remove from mold and cut.
  10. Let air out and harden. Use after 4-6 weeks.

Big Tip: Think of your ingredients in 3 categories

  1. Fats and oils. These go in one pot. These are things like lard (pork fat) or tallow (beef fat), coconut oil, olive oil, and palm oil. I don’t like to use crisco or vegetable oil because of their soy content, pesticide residue, and preservatives.
  2. Lye crystals and water. These will be combined to make “lye water” in a separate dish from your fats and oils. If you are trying a milk recipe you will often add it here in place of some of the water.
  3. Essential oils and other Ingredients. These will be added at the last-minute for smell, color, or texture. This also includes honey and salts.
Homemade Soap for Beginners in 7 Easy Steps

Tools

You will need the following items:

  1. Stainless steel pot (no iron or aluminum)
  2. Stainless steel spoon
  3. Plastic spatula
  4. Hand mixer. A stick blender helps it come to trace faster.
  5. Zip close bag
  6. Bowls to measure oils
  7. Container dedicated to lye water (I use an old plastic container)
  8. Digital scale that weighs in ounces to the tenths place (e.g. 2.3oz)
  9. Thermometer (a cheap candy thermometer works fine)
  10. Mold to pour soap in
  11. Wax paper to line mold if necessary
  12. Towels for insulating mold.

7 Easy Steps to Homemade Soap for Beginners

Step #1: Fats and Oils

Different fats add different qualities to your soap.

For example, coconut oil will help create a lather, while castor oil is great for bubbles.

The first thing you need to know if you’ve never made soap is that your ingredients are weighed, not measured. And they need to be precise! Of course, the smaller the batch, the more precise you need to be.

I purchased a relatively cheap digital scale (like this one) that lets you set your bowl on the scale and reset it to zero so that you are only measuring the ingredients and not the bowl (less math). Use a rubber spatula to scrape all the little bits into your large stainless steel pot. Be precise.

Step #2: Lye and Water

Homemade Soap for Beginners in 7 Easy Steps

Where to Get it:

I searched and searched for lye at a local store. Apparently it’s also used for making some type of illegal drug as well, so a few people gave me weird looks and asked why I wanted it. Really? Anyway, I found it in the plumbing section of an Ace Hardware store for a little over $3 for 16 oz. You have to get the pure crystals, not some liquid concoction!

If you don’t want to search everywhere you can get some on Amazon.

What is It:

Lye’s real name is sodium hydroxide. It is originally derived from ash (We can easily gather a different form that makes a softer soap called potassium hydroxide or potash from firewood ashes, but it needs to be filtered through straw with water. Some of our great grandparents made soap this way).

Lye will chemically react with water. The chemical reaction produces an invisible gas and heat, blasting your lye water mixture to a whopping 200 degrees Fahrenheit, depending on your starting water temperature.

Can you make soap without lye?

Remember that lye is needed to turn the oil molecules into soap. Without lye, the oils will remain oils. The chemical reaction that occurs when lye touches oils is fascinating and necessary.

No lye = no soap.

Anyone telling you that you can make soap without lye is probably promoting melt and pour. Melt and pour is a fun craft, but it’s not soap making. And you are using soap that someone ALREADY used lye in for you. Maybe that’s what you need because you have children and pets and just don’t want to mess with it. That’s fine. Try melt and pour first to get used to the process.

Safety:

Don’t be afraid of lye. You probably have bleach, toilet cleaner, and other chemicals in your house. Lye is no different.

I recommend using safety glasses, a long sleeve shirt, gloves, and a charcoal mask. You cannot use a surgical mask. Those do nothing for anyone. It must be a mask like this one to do any good.

This may seem overkill, but when you breathe in lye fumes it literally takes your breath away. Do not try to hold your breath! I know you’re thinking it. It’s just not worth the risk of breathing in the fumes. Those fumes will go away after 2-3 minutes.

Also, later when you blend the lye with the oils some tiny bits can splash up onto your arms and begin to burn you. Don’t be scared though! Just keep the kids out of the kitchen and treat it like you would bleach – you don’t want it on you. It doesn’t burn right away. It will make your skin red and begin to itch. This will be your indicator that you have a splash on you and that you need to wash the area.

Homemade Soap for Beginners in 7 Easy Steps

How to Use it:

I measure the lye into a plastic bag and the water into a medium sized plastic container.

This helps me to remember to pour the lye into the water and not the other way around. If you pour water into lye, the lye to water ratio is so high that the lye can explode (so I’ve read…and I don’t want to test it).

Always go outside and pour the lye into the water and stir. I even did this in a snow storm once (I should have taken a picture). Make sure the lye water is not in a location that can be touched by pets or children!

Once the lye is dissolved, there are no more fumes. This only takes about 2-3 minutes.

After it is all dissolved you can take it inside very carefully. If it gets on your skin it will feel itchy long before you notice the damage it is doing. It will burn your skin if you don’t wash it off.

Lye also reacts with aluminum and iron. Do not use utensils with those ingredients or the lye will slowly eat away at them. Use stainless steel, plastic, or glass.

#3 Temperatures

Temperatures are important!

After all, you want a chemical reaction to occur. The fat molecules need to be blasted open by the lye molecules, converting both molecules into soap.

You will have to heat up your fats in order to get them melted and uniform, and then allow them to cool to around 80-90 degrees Fahrenheit. I try to have my oil and lye right around 80-90 degrees Fahrenheit before I add the lye water to the oils.

It can be a bit of a juggle to get both your lye water and your fats/oils to the same temperature. If one is cooling faster than the other, just give it a cold water bath by running some cold water in your sink and placing your pot or plastic container in it. If one is cooling down too fast, then cover it or pace it in a hot bath so it stops cooling.

Be precise and you won’t have to guess about what went wrong. Instead, the only thing you’ll have to worry about is if it’s ready to pour yet or not.

Step #4: Trace

Trace is what it is called when the soap begins to thicken and is ready to pour into the mold.

It leaves a “trace” behind on the top of the mixture. You will usually see the soap turn a creamy color and will feel it get thicker as you stir.

Use a large stainless steel spoon to drizzle a little on top of the mixture. If it sinks right in, then it’s not ready. If you look at it with the light reflecting off of it and you can see the drizzle leave a little path on the top, then it has gotten to light trace. If it starts to become like thick pudding then it is at full trace and needs to be poured quickly! You don’t want it setting up in your pot.

Step #5: Essential Oils

7 Easy Steps to Homemade Soap for Beginners

As recipes get more complicated, there are more things that might be added in at the last minute. This is after you combine the lye water with your oils, it has come to trace, and it is ready to pour into the mold. If you want true oils and not synthetic chemically made smells, stick to Essential Oils. For more information on the differences see my article on Essential Oils vs Fragrance Oils.

Most recipes will give you the amount of Essential Oils to add that’s good for that size batch. Though, this can vary depending on the essential oil used since some are more potent than others. Use it as a guideline, and then after you stir it in see if you can smell it. I don’t like my soap to have a strong scent, but others do. Use what you like!

Step #6: Pour and Insulate

7 Easy Steps to Homemade Soap for Beginners
Yes, It’s a funny position, but it works.

You have to have something to put it in for it to set up. Want some frugal ideas?

You can use:

  1. a plastic container, but I had a hard time finding one that wasn’t rounded or ridged on the bottom or sides.
  2. a cardboard box
  3. glass container, but these are harder to get your soap out of (I don’t care what people claim about putting it in the freezer)
  4. PVC pipe – nice round soap
  5. Pringles cans – peel off the outside when it sets.
  6. Small wooden planter
  7. Make a wooden mold
  8. Buy a Wooden Mold
  9. Buy silicone molds
7 Easy Steps to homemade Soap for Beginners

I was worried about getting my soap out of my plastic container that I used with my first batch and I lined it with plastic wrap. I’ve seen pictures where people have done this.

It did not work out well!

Even though I tried to get out all the wrinkles, I apparently did not and it was folded into the soap where if I pulled, it tore and was stuck so that I had little bits of plastic inside my soap. It also made tons of wrinkles! My favorite liner? Beeswax Paper! Works great! You can also use regular wax paper. Parchment has a polyurethane coating, which is why I prefer a known wax.

Once you’ve lined your mold with wax paper (if necessary) and poured your soap into it. Give it a slight jiggle to make sure it’s all settled evenly and that all bubbles are out. You’ll want to place it on a very even surface for the first 24 hours or you will have slanted soap.

Cover in towels to help keep the heat in (remember that chemical process).

If your house is 75 degrees Fahrenheit or above then you do not need to insulate. If it is below, then use towels or blankets, de[ending on how much below 75 it is.

To insulate, after it is poured into a mold, place on a blanket (or towel if it is a small batch), and place blankets all around it. After the 24 hour period check to see if it is set. If set, you can take your soap out of the mold and cut. if it is still too soft to remove (which happens more often in silicone molds), then leave it for another 12-24 hours before checking again.

#7 Curing and Storing

Lye soap is not ready to use at once.

The lye has not finished converting the oil molecules into soap molecules. If you use it right away, it may quite possibly burn your skin. The longer it sets, the more mild it will get, the harder it will get, and the longer it will last.

Technically, the saponification process finishes after around 48 hours. But your soap will be so soft that it will disintegrate in the shower within a few days. Let it cure and harden.

Cut your soap and let it cure for 3-6 weeks, turning occasionally so that all sides dry out.

Where to put it?

7 Easy Steps to Homemade Soap for Beginners

Over time your essential oils will grow fainter within the soap. If you blend top note essential oils with deep notes then it will last a lot longer. Otheriwse, you will notice the scent fading within 6 months or so

I use a plastic storage bin with drawers like this one. This way, you can semi cover them, but leave the drawer cracked open a bit for ventilation while they continue to cure.

You don’t want to leave them where there may be get much moisture or they will end up with mold over time if you have herbs within them (and the oils will not last as long. A nice cool dry place is great.

Need Recipes? Check out my Homemade Soap Page for lots of great resources!

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About Kelly

Kelly is the author of number one best seller The Natural Soap Making Book for Beginners and Easy Soap Making. She's also written multiple ebooks on herbal remedies and natural bath and body DIYs. Her journey toward better health has inspired her to make things in and around the home from scratch, start a homestead, and become more resourceful when it comes to health and home. She shares her recipes and DIYs here on Simple Life Mom and has a shop where she sells products for those who would rather buy than make (SimpleLifeMom.com/shop).

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  • Lisa
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    September 21, 2015 at 7:05 AM

    Hi Kelly,

    Could you share with me where you got the wooden mold box as well as the divider inside of it? I am thinking of making soap and I thought that looked like a really good idea. I wasn’t sure if it was a box and divider that you made or it could be purchased somewhere. Thanks for any help and for sharing your knowledge on making soap.

    • Kelly
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      September 21, 2015 at 11:42 AM

      I got that mold from Brambleberry. I have two and absolutely love them. They both came with the ends falling off and I had to put some finishing nails in them to reinforce the sides, but that was quick and easy. They sell smaller ones as well. The one in the picture is for 36 bars.

    • Lisa
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      September 21, 2015 at 2:14 PM

      Thank you Kelly for that information on the mold. I’ll find that company and check it out. Thanks again and have a great week.

  • Carol
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    September 21, 2015 at 7:08 PM

    Hello. Great article. I have wanted to make soap for awhile now, but am terrified to make the ‘jump’! this article has again made my creative side anxious to begin. A few questions: first, I noted that there was no picture ‘below’ showing your soapbox in a plastic container in the winter..
    Also went to the Brambleberry site to look at the wooden mold, (yikes, spendy!But I’m sure worth it) and had some questions about :
    When you line the box, do you line the sides of all the individual soaps? Or just the bottom of the box, and the sides of the box? Lining the sides, won’t that also make wrinkles? The site mentioned using mineral oil….I don’t use petroleum at all…what is the point of making great natural stuff if you use nasty stuff like that? Is there anything you can use in place of mineral oil and do you use it? You mention using PVC pipe, but how do you get the soap out??? Does it shrink that much when drying that it will just fall out? Sorry about all these questions, but I am really going to try this soon, and I’d like to make sure I have ALL the info in order to have a successful product! (Using others’ mistakes so I don’t have them!!!LOL!)
    Thanks again for a great post!

  • Sasha Chong
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    September 22, 2015 at 3:04 PM

    Good afternoon and thank you so much Kelly for your article. You stay true to your slogan, and as usual it’s a pleasure reading your publications. This was done in simple steps that us your viewers can understand and appreciate. Really a good read and makes me more excited to do soaping. Thanks again, and keep up the great work. God’s continued blessings on you and your family.

    • Kelly
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      September 22, 2015 at 4:03 PM

      Thank you for your kind words Sasha

  • Kallee
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    September 25, 2015 at 8:02 PM

    Wow. What a process, but it looks terrific. Homemade stuff is always so good.

  • Katerina
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    September 26, 2015 at 9:20 AM

    When I was in high school our teacher taught us how to make soap. You brought so many memories to me!

  • Sandra
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    September 26, 2015 at 12:00 PM

    I always see sodium hydroxide as a listed ingredient in products. Now I know that it’s lye! Thanks for the details on making your own soap. There are many benefits to knowing what you are lathering on your body, and love that you can customize each batch!

  • Betsy @ Desserts Required
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    September 26, 2015 at 9:21 PM

    My sister used to make her own soaps and I loved each and every one of them!

  • Joy @ Joy Love Food
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    September 27, 2015 at 6:14 AM

    I love homemade soaps, and would love to make my own, thanks for the easy steps!

  • Gregg The Rural Economist
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    September 29, 2015 at 7:13 AM

    Love this post. Have shared it on all of my social media. We have made soap several times. My grandfather even showed me how to get lye from wood ashes when I was younger.

    • Kelly
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      September 29, 2015 at 11:05 AM

      Thank You Gregg. Love your site – the Rural Economist!

  • Sandra
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    September 29, 2015 at 9:39 AM

    Great tutorial, thanks for sharing at Our Simple Homestead Blog Hop.

  • Therese
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    October 15, 2015 at 7:41 PM

    Thankyou for your clear and consise instructions. I made a batch of castile soap (olive oil, rice bran oil and coconut oil) about 6 months ago. I t turned out OK but there are 2 things that I wasn’t sure was normal or not. First of all I use a handheld stick blender and found that my batch traced super fast, like a few minutes, it set up super quick as well which made getting it into my various moulds tricky. After about a day and a half I cut them up and placed on a wire rack in my cupboard to mature. I turned them regularly and used one bar after about a month. It was a bit soft so I left it a few more weeks. I still found it softish so left it a few months. While the soap is set I find that when I use it, it gets very soft and squishy after the first few uses. I just thought it would be harder. Does this sound normal to you? I’m keen to start making another batch soon for presents. Any suggestions?

    • Kelly
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      October 15, 2015 at 8:04 PM

      It sounds like your recipe used a lot of olive oil. This can make for a very soft bar. If you try a different recipe with less olive oil you should have a much harder bar. When it just starts to thicken get it in the molds.
      I have a number of recipes on my site. Let me know if you don’t find what you’re looking for.

  • Therese
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    October 16, 2015 at 5:43 AM

    Thanks, I think you may be right. From memory I think the batch was 250gms coconut, 750gms olive oil and a smaller amount of rice bran. I’ve perused your recipes. First of all I was wondering if a shampoo bar can be used for the body. Also do you favour using part of your fat content in the form of animal fat?

    • Kelly
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      October 16, 2015 at 11:27 AM

      The shampoo bars can definitely be used as body bars.
      I do use animal fat. You can often ask your butcher to reserve fat trimmings for you for free or a few cents.

  • Joby
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    December 21, 2015 at 10:43 AM

    Very good article. Would have been nice if the measurements for ingredients would have been included though?
    maybe I missed them?

    • Kelly
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      December 21, 2015 at 10:48 AM

      This is a general “how to” article. For a list of recipes using these methods, click on the Homemade Soap tab in the menu above.

  • Jen
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    February 29, 2016 at 9:51 AM

    Hi Kelly, I really love your soap recipes…however i have not been able to locate how much water to use to dissolve the lye. Do you ever make your own lye from wood ashes. I have made several batches, but nervous to use it (and waste the fats and essential oils). could you please let me know how much water to use. Thanks!

    • Kelly
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      March 1, 2016 at 3:34 PM

      Water is going to vary, depending on your recipe. Do you have a specific recipe in mind? You can always put your ingredients (all your fats) in a lye calculator like on soapcalc.net and it will tell you how much water as well.
      I haven’t used lye from my own wood ash (potash or potassium hydroxide), but using it from what someone else has made – it makes a very soft soap. Find a specific recipe created for use of potassium hydroxide instead of sodium hydroxide. It will be designed for that difference.

  • Jewls
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    March 31, 2016 at 2:42 PM

    Very nice summary of how to make soap. I’ve been making soap for years and I as so many others was fearful of the lye/liquid step of the process. Funny that the way you described it is exactly how I do it. Mix it up outside, holding my breath and run 🙂 Ok… I don’t run anymore, but I do move away quickly. The fumes are dangerous if inhaled. Use caution.

    Additionally, I too was nervous about the fats to liquid ratio. Find a lye calculator online (there are several good ones). This will take away the confusion and give you the best odds at a perfectly configured recipe. Remember too that every batch of soap can bring surprises. Some good, some… not so much. It’s a learning process and no one gets it consistently right in the beginning. Don’t be afraid of the mistakes. Have fun.

    Once you’ve taken the first big step, your first batch, you’ll see that making soap is actually pretty easy. Follow the safety guidelines and you’ll be making soap in no time. If you’re anything like me, you’ll be giving it away (or maybe selling it) for an excuse to make more. It is a great way to share your love of all things natural and always a welcome gift.

    • Kelly
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      March 31, 2016 at 3:51 PM

      Thank you for your comments Jewls. I’m sure it helps others to hear that it’s not just me saying go ahead and jump in and give it a try!! 🙂 It is really fun – a creative outlet for sure.

  • Julie
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    April 17, 2016 at 2:37 PM

    Thank you so much for such a great step-by-step. I, too, have been reading tons and trying to wade through so much information on making my own soap. After reading your post… I think I’m ready to make the leap and do it. Appreciate it!

  • MaryLin Newren
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    April 18, 2017 at 1:32 AM

    I plan to make your recipe #5, but I need an idea as to how many bars it will make?
    I make bath soaps and love to use the silicone molds. My rectangle molds are 7-1/2
    inches wide and 4-inches deep, and the mold has a set of 12. I’m afraid of not having
    enough cavities to pour the soap into when the time comes, and I want to make sure
    I’m prepared in case I need to buy more.
    Also…how long was the entire process the first time you made the recipe? I want to make sure I give myself the needed time with no interruptions.
    Making home-made products is sooo fun! I first began making my own laundry soap, then bath soaps, and now shampoo bars! It’s all so addicting…a natural high!

    Thanks for everything!
    MaryLin N.

    • Kelly
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      April 18, 2017 at 8:46 PM

      A 12 slot mold usually makes 3 lbs, or 12 – 4oz bars. That recipe is made for 2 lbs. You will have enough space in your mold.
      You want to allow 3-4 hours for your first time making soap. I still take a few hours, even after hundreds of batches, but that’s because I’ll melt my oils, and then go and do something else while it cools to 90-100 degrees. Coming back some time in there to pour the lye into the water so it can start to cool as well. So, even though you need that time, you’re not standing over it that whole time. Use a cold water bath to cool things faster, and don’t forget to pour the lye into the water outside! You don’t want to breathe those fumes that come off for the first 1-2 minutes.

  • MaryLin Newren
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    April 18, 2017 at 9:01 AM

    Hi Kelly-

    It’s MaryLin N. again. I forgot to ask you another question…
    I realize you’ve been making shampoo bars for many years, and prices have
    changed. but is there any way you can guestimate a ball-park amount of $ it
    might cost to buy EVERYTHING to get started, possibly down to the thermometer
    and mouth masks? I’m on a limited budget and plan to get started with part of our
    tax refund. I just want an idea if it’s at all possible.
    Thanks a million!
    MaryLin N.

    • Kelly
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      April 18, 2017 at 8:48 PM

      Wow, I don’t know. Think of it as an investment for a lot of bath and body recipes. You won’t use all of your ingredients. You’ll have oils and butters left over for lip balm, lotion, shampoo bars, and body bars. So, up front cost can be a little more, but it pays for itself soon. Do a search for items on Amazon. Try Bulkapothecary.com as well.

  • Mary ann
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    April 19, 2017 at 4:55 PM

    I’m really old, so making soap was part of my childhood on the farm! Both my Mom &a Dad made scrubbing soap and it was just great for anything greasy needing to be clean. Maybe I can help with some things..this is way too much “Little House On The Prairie!!
    My folks used wood boxes that peaches came in. I use heavy cardboard boxes. Some that Costco packs groceries are great. They are plastic coated. I cut them down
    Line your forms with a dbl. layer of cotton muslin or cheese cloth. Helps release easily.
    For scrubbing soap, add borax during the stir. My Dad added rosemary twigs to water for scent. They always used rain (softened) water for all soap
    We made soap after butchering season because of all the fat by-product, fall. We never made it inside. Some butchers will sell you unrendered fat to be boiled down..again, outside! Smoked! To cure it kept in a cool spot with the homemade wine all winter.
    I so admire all of you!

    • Kelly
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      April 19, 2017 at 5:21 PM

      I love that Mary Ann! Thanks for the additional ideas. 🙂

  • Dori
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    August 5, 2017 at 6:17 PM

    This is honestly the best site I’ve seen to explain making soap to a beginner. Thank you !

    • Kelly
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      August 6, 2017 at 10:07 AM

      Thank you Dori!!

  • Balgates
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    November 20, 2017 at 11:45 AM

    Hi Kelly, I enjoy reading your processes in cold method, but I have the following observation: 1. You don’t measure the concentration of the lyr with hydrometer. 2 the volume of the oil per lyr is not given. Likewise in making the solution of the caustic, I expect the ratio if the caustic and water should be given in cm3 for easy measurement.

    • Kelly
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      November 20, 2017 at 2:17 PM

      It’s not necessary to measure the concentration of lye. There are standard tried and true measurements that can be calculated using the SAP of the oils and doing some math OR using a handy dandy soapmaking lye calculator.
      Measurements are given in ounces. If you need to convert them, you can enter them online for help.
      Same for water: easily convert to other measurements by using online calculators if necessary. Here in America we commonly use ounces, which is why you will find those measurements on my website.

  • Joanne
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    January 4, 2018 at 11:43 PM

    Hey Kelly! I’ve been stalking your site the past few weeks, got your book, got all the ingredients and finally had the courage to make my first batch of cold process soap! everything worked out great for me and it looks like it is hardening up quite well in my silicon molds. As for curing, I have read in your book that it takes 4 – 6 weeks but how do i know when it’s really ready? I read on other sites online that i can weigh my soap every few days and when the weight plateaus, it is done, is that right and is that the only way?

    • Kelly
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      January 5, 2018 at 8:41 AM

      Half of curing is losing some water weight. Thata what youd be measuring with weighing them over time. Instead, just use your fingers. If it’s hard to your liking then you’re ready to go. Curing until the lye has been fully saponified is different. That can take 48 hours to 3-4 weeks. We say wait 4-6 weeks to be safe AND have a hard bar. Ph testing is extremely hard to get right. It’s best just to wait a few weeks.

      • Joanne
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        January 5, 2018 at 12:34 PM

        thanks Kelly! I’ll just wait 4 weeks then 😛

        Another question about curing – you mentioned to leave it on a shelf to cure. I have 3 animals and fur all over my house. i was thinking of leaving them in a cupboard i rarely open. Will that provide enough ventilation?

  • Cherry
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    March 23, 2018 at 4:45 PM

    Thank you so much. I found all your information very well explained.
    Blessings
    Cherry from Christchurch
    New Zealand

  • Beverly
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    April 20, 2018 at 11:30 AM

    Where do you get the recipes?

    • Kelly
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      April 21, 2018 at 12:18 PM

      Click on the soap tab above and go to the recipe section.

  • Precious
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    April 26, 2018 at 4:34 AM

    Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us.
    Please my question is, can I use Shea butter in place of meat fat ( Lard)
    Thank you very much once again.

    • Kelly
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      April 26, 2018 at 7:22 AM

      No, babassu oil or palm oil are good replacements for lard or tallow but you still need to run it through a lye calculator.

  • Janet
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    June 16, 2019 at 11:43 AM

    What makes a shampoo bar different from a soap bar? Can I save space and use one bar for both? Thanks

    • Kelly
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      June 17, 2019 at 9:03 AM

      You can use a shampoo bar as a body bar, no problem. Shampoo bars have a variety of oils that moisturize, help with fullness or curl, etc. Body bars are ok for some hair types, but not the best for others. So you can definitely give it a try.

  • Adam Reese
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    August 29, 2019 at 4:17 AM

    Just an fyi sodium hydroxide should have no reaction with iron and if it did it would also react with the steel. It will react with zinc, aluminium, and titanium. Also a few other non metals like sulfur. But no reaction with iron.

  • Linda K Fisher-Berlanga
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    September 10, 2019 at 10:03 AM

    other hot process recipes I’ve seen suggest the zap test for the soap to make sure the lye is processed fully. I don’t see that in your recipes. Help me feel comfortable with this. I’m a little leary of sticking soap in my mouth, tho, to make sure the lye is processed correctly.
    Thank you!

    • Kelly
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      September 15, 2019 at 4:47 PM

      The zap test is completely unreliable. Instead, just wait 3-6 weeks for cold process. Hot process is ready as soon as it cools.

  • Katie
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    April 16, 2020 at 1:54 AM

    Hi I’ve been wanting to make my own soap!
    Question…how do you know if all the lye is gone so it won’t burn skin? Also how do you heat up fats? Just microwave?

    • Kelly
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      April 16, 2020 at 9:45 PM

      In a large pot on the stove you can heat the fats until they melt.
      A good soap recipe always has leftover fats. This makes sure there is never any lye left over. All my recipes are around 5-15% superfatted. The exception is laundry soap recipes that don’t have much leftover so that you don’t gum up your washing machine.

  • John Caldwell
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    May 5, 2020 at 1:23 PM

    You say the measurements of content must be precise yet, you give no starting point measurements. Why?

    • Kelly
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      May 12, 2020 at 9:59 PM

      This is a “how-to” so that you can understand what steps to take when you have a recipe. I have a lot of recipes here. Just check them out and you’ll know where to go from there.

  • Amy
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    May 9, 2020 at 9:34 PM

    I am just starting my journey of making soap. I have your book and have really enjoyed it! Question for you – You mention needing a large stainless steel pot, what size would you recommend? Thanks so much!

    • Kelly
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      May 12, 2020 at 9:53 PM

      As long as it holds double the size of your batch then you know you’ll have enough space to work with. You just don’t want it so full that it splashes you when you blend it.

  • Mary
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    May 28, 2020 at 3:31 PM

    I am thinking of going into soap making. Just trying to get things in order. Now that I have read this I am motivated. Thanks.

  • Tiffany
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    May 31, 2020 at 9:53 PM

    So I’ve never done lye soap before and I wonder if there is a substitute for tallow. I just really don’t want animal fat in my soaps. I was looking at this process after reading about the jewelweed soap for poison oak/ivy specifically. Thanks!

    • Kelly
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      June 3, 2020 at 10:29 AM

      I have a lot of vegan recipes on my website. Just use one of those and then incorporate the jewelweed methods into that recipe.

  • Ummu Ayman
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    October 27, 2020 at 10:26 AM

    Good work dear!! Please can you share your recipes and measurements for each? Will like to try making one. Secondly… The lye, is it used for laundry bar soap or a bathing soap

    • Kelly
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      November 3, 2020 at 6:48 PM

      There are lots of recipes on my website. Choose the homemade soap tab in the menu and click on “more” to get the full list.
      You can’t make any type of soap (laundry, bathing, shampoo) without lye. Lye helps “transform” the oils in the recipe into soap through a chemical reaction.

  • Becki mepham
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    June 27, 2021 at 3:03 AM

    How do you cover soap, to me it’s laying towels etc on top of the soap, but won’t that get stuck in the soap when it sets?

    • Kelly
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      June 27, 2021 at 6:08 PM

      If you don’t have a cover that came with your mold, lay a piece of wax paper over the soap batch before laying any towels down. If your house is hot or even warm during the summer you don’t really need insulation unless you’re adding coloring that you’re concerned about gelling fully or developing a darker color without a ring around outer cooler edges. Be careful of over heating.

  • Mayur Patel
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    January 28, 2022 at 11:56 AM

    Its great you put the step(10) 4-6 week because most videos I have seen dont seem to mention this. This can create a big problem if you use the soap early.

    • Kelly
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      January 29, 2022 at 2:00 PM

      It’s actually ok to use soap a lot earlier than the 4-6 weeks, but they are usually still soft enough that they don’t last. When we wait, the soaps evaporate more water and become a lot harder. The saponification process usually ends within 24-38 hours after making the soap, but because that time frame changes I would never want to tell someone it’s ok to use soap before the set weeks mentioned.

  • Stacy L Darnell
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    March 5, 2022 at 6:33 AM

    Good morning,
    I have been searching everywhere about a soap base.
    Can you make your lye soap base, and store it to then at a later date, cut it up and melt it to make other soaps. Like the melt and pour soap? With kids I wanted to make just batches of the base, while kids are away and have them to pull out and make the actual soap later. Is this possible?

    • Kelly
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      March 8, 2022 at 5:29 PM

      You can! I’ve been experimenting for about a year trying to adjust the glycerin level and ingredients to make something that melts better.
      More liquid or softer oils combined with about 2 ounces of glycerin per pound of soap seems to melt pretty good. It can make chunky soap (like hand milled soap) unless you make those changes. I haven’t found that you can get the liquid pour from natural ingredients. All melt and pour that melts to liquid that I’ve found is full of horrible ingredients.

  • Kinitopet
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    February 21, 2025 at 6:41 PM

    I absolutely love this post! The steps are so clear and easy to follow, making it perfect for beginners like me. I can’t wait to try making my own soap at home! Thanks for sharing such great tips!

  • daisy
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    April 9, 2025 at 3:02 PM

    love the book! can i use silicone molds for soap making?

    • Kelly
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      April 10, 2025 at 9:20 AM

      Yes, you can! You usually have to leave them in the mold a few more hours to make sure you don’t mess them up when removing them. You can always stick it in the freezer for a bit to be sure.

  • Peter
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    May 22, 2025 at 3:47 PM

    My mother used to make our household soap, no frills, reserved tallow from cooking, lye, and water. No essential oils, oatmeal, herbs, spices, etc.

    For her moulds, she’d save up plastic bottles – dish detergent, shampoo, Bactine, (if catsup came in today’s squeeze bottles, those would have been perfect), etc. She’d cut the top off at the shoulder, pour in the batter, and one it was fully set, she’d turn the bottle on its side and simply slice off bars, slicing through the bottle and soap at once, with a sharp chef’s knife, like slicing up a gouda cheese. Then she’d just pop the bars out of the ring of plastic, if the taper of the ring allowed it, or slice the ring open, down the side and peel it off the soap, if not.

    • Kelly
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      May 22, 2025 at 9:39 PM

      I love hearing about the heritage of soap making in a family. Thanks for sharing with us!

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