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Conditioner Bar Recipe – How to, Natural, Healthy

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This natural conditioner bar recipe has been a long time coming. After all, my natural shampoo bar recipes have been popular for many years now.

I now have this recipe below, plus another that’s more formulated for all hair types here: Natural Conditioner Bar for All Hair Types

I’ve been very happy with using a diluted apple cider vinegar spray as a conditioner for many years (add a little lavender and vanilla essential oil and it smells wonderful). But recently I was traveling and realized it would be a lot more convenient if I didn’t have to worry about a bottle leaking. Plus, a conditioner bar would take up a lot less space.

Natural Conditioner Bar Recipe from Simple Life Mom

Why A Conditioner Bar Recipe?

As I just mentioned, having a conditioner bar can be very handy when traveling. But there are a lot more benefits:

  1. Conditioner bars are frugal – a small bar lasts a month or more and once you’ve gathered the ingredients you can make a number of bars for yourself and your family.
  2. They travel easily. They dry quickly and make traveling simple with no worry about spills.
  3. They are healthy. If you make sure you know and understand each ingredient, then you know you are using something that will nourish your hair and scalp, not just make your hair look nice.

You can buy shampoo bars and conditioner spray in my shop

Safety Precautions

Most recipes that you will find for conditioner bar recipes have Behentrimonium Methosulfate, which is an ammonium salt made from Rapeseed oil. It’s generally considered safe, but no one can point to any research that states that it is good for skin or hair.

I feel like the research is lacking too much, so this is one ingredient I’d like to skip.

Natural Conditioner Bar Recipe from Simple Life Mom

Creating the Best Conditioner Bar Recipe

I really had to start from scratch to create these conditioning bars. There’s a lot that goes into a really good conditioner bar. I had to do a lot of research and a lot of experiments. And there’s a lot that I want in a bar.

I want it to have only nourishing ingredients, nothing questionable.

I want it to have the right pH.

Shampoo bars are slightly alkaline, so you want ingredients that will be slightly acidic. For example, cocoa butter is slightly acidic, so it pairs well with other slightly acidic ingredients like shea butter and bees wax.

Oils don’t have a pH, so in choosing oils I needed to look at oils that are beneficial to sealing and nourishing the hair shaft like jojoba, argon, coconut, and avocado oils.

I also want it to have the right hardness. It needs to dry nicely, stay hard, but not be too hard where it doesn’t lather and spread well.

Natural Conditioner Bar Recipe from Simple Life Mom

How to Use

This is VERY important! A few of you have mentioned how your hair feels greasy after using these conditioner bars. You are using way too much.

These are oil based conditioner bars that should last months.  They are designed to condition and moisturize at the same time. You put only a little onto your hands and start by working into the ends of your hair and then rubbing hands throughout the rest of your hair. This will keep most of the oils at the ends of your hair where it is needed, but will also condition the rest of your hair.

Put your head under warm/hot water and work hands through hair to distribute. This works wonderfully on my thick, curly hair. If your hair is thin or tends to be greasy, you may have a better experience using an herbal hair rinse.

Conditioner Bar Recipe

Natural Conditioner Bar Recipe from Simple Life Mom
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Conditioner Bar Recipe

A natural conditioner bar to balance and nourish hair.
Cook Time15 minutes mins
Total Time15 minutes mins
Keyword: conditioner bar, natural conditioner, organic hair products
Servings: 4 ounces
Author: Kelly

Equipment

  • 1 small saucepan
  • 1 glass measuring cup
  • 1 measuring spoons
  • 1 measuring cups
  • 1 whisk
  • 1 12 cup muffin tin , or small soap mold

Ingredients

  • 3 tablespoons shea butter
  • 2 tablespoons Beeswax
  • 2 tablespoons cocoa butter
  • 2 tablespoons Coconut Oil
  • 2 tablespoons mango butter
  • 1 teaspoon argon oil
  • 1 teaspoon avocado oil
  • 30 drops Lavender Essential Oil – or other essential oil of choice

Instructions

  • Combine all ingredients, except essential oil, in a double boiler. I like to use a glass measuring cup in a saucepan of boiling water.
    3 tablespoons shea butter, 2 tablespoons Beeswax, 2 tablespoons cocoa butter, 2 tablespoons Coconut Oil, 2 tablespoons mango butter, 1 teaspoon argon oil, 1 teaspoon avocado oil
  • Stir on and off until melted.
  • Remove from heat and add essential oil. Stir.
    30 drops Lavender Essential Oil
  • Pour into molds (makes 4 one ounce bars). If you don't have a mold, use muffin liners in muffin cups until cooled and hardened.

This recipe makes four 1-ounce bars.

You will combine all ingredients, except the essential oil, in a double boiler. I like to use a glass measuring cup in a saucepan of boiling water. Stir on and off until melted.

Remove from heat and then add the essential oil of your choice and stir until well combined.

Pour into molds (makes 4 one ounce bars). If you don’t have a mold, use muffin liners in muffin cups until cooled and hardened.

Natural Conditioner Bar Recipe from Simple Life Mom

How to Use Condition Bars

After washing and rinsing your hair with a shampoo bar, rub conditioner bar between your hands to get a light layer on both hands.

Spread into your hair, taking care to avoid hair around your face (because that hair usually becomes oils first) until last.

Using warm to hot water, rinse your hair. This will make sure it spreads throughout your hair and the hot water will insure it is spread evenly.

Towel dry, brush, and you’re ready to go!

As I said above, I also now have a conditioner bar that is formulated more for all hair types here: Natural Conditioner Bar for All Hair Types

Natural Conditioner Bar Recipe by Simple Life Mom

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About Kelly

Kelly is the author of number one best seller The Natural Soap Making Book for Beginners and Easy Soap Making. She's also written multiple ebooks on herbal remedies and natural bath and body DIYs. Her journey toward better health has inspired her to make things in and around the home from scratch, start a homestead, and become more resourceful when it comes to health and home. She shares her recipes and DIYs here on Simple Life Mom and has a shop where she sells products for those who would rather buy than make (SimpleLifeMom.com/shop).

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  • Geri Sofias
    · Reply

    December 10, 2018 at 10:55 AM

    Hello,
    I love the idea of a conditioner bar. I was wondering if you had an alternate to shea butter. I know it has all sorts of healing properties unfortunately I’m allergic to it. Thanks for your help.

    Geri Sofias

    • Kelly
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      December 12, 2018 at 6:29 PM

      You can replace it with mango butter. It will make a harder bar so add less bees wax.

    • Shelley
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      April 2, 2025 at 11:01 AM

      4 stars
      I’m so excited about this bar but mine turned out too soft to pull out of my silacone muffin molds. Not sure what I did wrong. Can they be melted down again & if so, what can I do to make them harden? Thanks for these fun recipes!

      • Kelly
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        Author
        April 2, 2025 at 7:26 PM

        You can definitely melt it again. Add a little more cocoa butter or beeswax to harden them more.

  • Lacey
    · Reply

    December 10, 2018 at 11:21 AM

    I want to try shampoo and conditioner bars! The ingredients sound great! Wonderful post, thank you for sharing!

  • Cezie
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    December 12, 2018 at 4:25 PM

    Is there another option if I wanted to substitute the mango butter?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      December 12, 2018 at 6:26 PM

      You can use more shea butter. This may make them slightly softer.

      • joyce
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        June 1, 2020 at 2:53 AM

        May I use as co wash?

        • Kelly
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          June 3, 2020 at 10:28 AM

          It won’t cleanse. It is just a conditioner.

  • Carol L
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    December 13, 2018 at 11:34 PM

    Thank you for this post! I love the idea of a conditioning bar! I have used shampoo bars for years now and I love the idea of them. I also usually just use ACV (or rather, a homemade Queen of Hungary’s water) as a rinse. but this sounds interesting. I’ll have to make a batch and see how I like it. I do have a question, though. I have asked several times on blogs where they use mango butter: I’m allergic to mangoes (they are in the same family as Poison Oak, to which I am HIGHLY allergic). I know that it is the skin. leaves and probably bark that has the urusiol….but not sure about the seed, which I think is where the butter is from. Do you think it would be safe for me to use mango butter? Don’t ask me to ask a doctor: they all seem totally oblivious about the relationship to Poison oak!(although it was a doctor in Hawaii who made me aware of the two being related). I just wondered if you had ever heard of the mango/poison oak relationship or if mango butter has the urusiol…?
    Thanks!

    • Kelly
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      Author
      December 15, 2018 at 10:40 AM

      I have heard of it. I react to the mango fruit because my system interprets it as a high tree pollen intake and my mouth feels burned. My sister has the reaction to the oils in the skin of the fruit as you described. We both have used mango butter without any reaction, but everyone is different. I could have no reaction at all and you could respond because our immune systems are programmed differently. That’s why some essential oils and herbs do wonderful for one person and do nothing for the next. We’re so majorly complex it’s truly amazing.

  • Mellisa
    · Reply

    December 14, 2018 at 12:50 AM

    What other oils do you recommend. I was thinking rosemary for dark hair and chamomile and lemon for blonde. Not sure of quantities though

    • Kelly
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      Author
      December 15, 2018 at 10:35 AM

      You can use a few drops of those essential oils. If you want to infuse an oil before hand that would be wonderful too. Those don’t add to color that much so really anyone can use them, not just dark or light hair. Rosehip is another wonderful oil on the hair.

  • Fame
    · Reply

    December 14, 2018 at 11:53 AM

    Omg I’ve been looking for a recipe with no BTMS in It. Thank you so much going to try tonight.

    Question… do these end up crumbling? I was reading reviews that if you don’t use BTMS and cretyl acid the bars crumble…

    • Kelly
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      Author
      December 15, 2018 at 10:33 AM

      No, they have a creamy oily texture and don’t crumble. Let me know how they work for you. I’m interested in if I can tweak it for different hair types.

      • Kathleen Dodge-DeHaven
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        June 9, 2019 at 4:14 PM

        What a wonderful, knowledgeably written article. I have really fine, thin hair; it tends to be a little dry now because it’s color-treated.. You were talking about tweaking your recipe for different hair types. Do you have any ideas? I’m going to try your original recipe for my husband’s hair which is waist-length, thick, and wavy.

        • Kelly
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          June 11, 2019 at 9:31 AM

          I would still use it very lightly. You can even try to use it before applying the shampoo and see how the mixture results. If it doesn’t work for your hair type, use apple cider vinegar diluted 50% with water.

        • linsey
          · Reply

          September 4, 2019 at 5:25 PM

          add some thyme essential oil. It is famous for thickening / strenghtening your hair <3

      • KadriPiibe
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        October 30, 2020 at 5:11 PM

        Hi,

        Does it mean that rinse with vinegar is off the list.

        Best regards
        Kadri it

        • Kelly
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          Author
          November 3, 2020 at 5:52 PM

          I still use a 50% diluted vinegar rinse as a conditioner. I use this bar as a deep conditioner about once a month, sometimes more.

  • Annelie
    · Reply

    December 15, 2018 at 7:18 AM

    Good day.
    Would it be possible to send me your Shampoo Bar recipe… Beind a newcomer on your blog… As TODAY. Please and thankyou
    ANNELIE : NIGEL.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      December 15, 2018 at 10:32 AM

      There are a lot on my site. Just use the search bar at the top right.

  • Julie McC
    · Reply

    December 15, 2018 at 12:57 PM

    Hi there,

    I’ve just found your website and it’s exactly what I’ve been looking for. I can’t wait to get making the conditioner, Nettle Shampoo Bar and Green Tea and Rose Facial Cream. In the facial cream and conditioner beeswax is one of the ingredients, can you recommend a vegan alternative? I also wanted to ask of you have a recipe for a deodorant bar?

    Loving your website and everything you’re creating.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      December 18, 2018 at 8:38 AM

      Hi Julie! You can substitute bees wax with Candelilla, Bayberry, Carnuba, or Organic Soy wax if they are sustainably sourced.

      • Dana Bannister
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        October 3, 2019 at 1:13 PM

        Hi Kelly, I just tried to make some vegan conditioner bars substituting Carnuba instead of Beeswax and they are not hardening enough to take out of the muffin tin/liners. Any suggestions? TYIA

        • Kelly
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          Author
          October 7, 2019 at 6:34 PM

          Yes, just remelt and add more of the wax.

  • Sarah
    · Reply

    December 15, 2018 at 1:50 PM

    What is the ratio of essential oil to batch? 1%?

  • Cristina Correia
    · Reply

    December 17, 2018 at 3:52 AM

    Hello in this Conditioner Bar can avocato be substituted buy another oil? Thank you so much.
    Cristina

    • Kelly
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      Author
      December 18, 2018 at 8:33 AM

      Of course. Use what you have.

  • Janis
    · Reply

    December 26, 2018 at 5:17 PM

    Hi, just made these. Can’t wait to try them. Is there a cure time for them?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      December 27, 2018 at 4:32 PM

      No, just use them when they are cool and hardened.

  • Lana
    · Reply

    December 27, 2018 at 8:58 AM

    I’ve been using the shampoo bar (avocado and lavender) and I was already happy enough, but now with this conditioner bar, my hair looks AMAZING! 😀
    My hair is super thin, curly (3a) and oily on the roots/dry on the ends. I feel now that once I stopped using all the chemicals products that I’ve been using all these years to “fix” my hair, and started going natural, my hair is more healthy than ever.
    I just want to say thank you for sharing this things with us <3
    Bless u

    ps: the conditioner will last foreeeeeeeeeever hahaha I've made half of a batch and still seems that I have product for at least 6 monts

  • Kristi Stone
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    January 2, 2019 at 9:03 AM

    I love this idea, though I have never used a conditioner bar before. I think I’ll try it this year! Thanks for the idea, pinning it for later!

  • Heidi
    · Reply

    January 3, 2019 at 6:20 AM

    Over time does the use of this clog the drain?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 5, 2019 at 9:15 PM

      Most remains on your hair, so I don’t think it would. We haven’t had any problems at all (and my husband is very particular about that kind of thing in our shower – no shea butter based shaving creams for us!). Definitely let us know if you have a different experience.

      • Heidi Shuman
        · Reply

        January 7, 2019 at 7:45 AM

        Thank you!

        • rachel
          · Reply

          June 15, 2019 at 6:15 PM

          Is there something you can use instead of coconut oil? My family has an allergy to it

          • Kelly

            Author
            June 17, 2019 at 9:04 AM

            Yes, just use a little less of another liquid oil and increase the cocoa butter slightly so that the hardness is the same.

        • Nadia
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          January 24, 2021 at 1:35 PM

          Hello I’m going to try this can l use olive oil and almond oil instead of argen oil and avacado oil, also can l use some vitamin e oil in it along with the Shea butter cocoa butter mango butter and coconut oil plus the bees wax and can l use fragrance oils or is it just essential oils also can l use mica powder to colour them thankyou

          • Kelly

            Author
            January 24, 2021 at 6:21 PM

            You can make those substitutions. Just remember that every substitute changes the end product’s effect on your hair.
            I never use fragrance oils due to their toxicity.

  • priscilla
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    January 8, 2019 at 11:33 AM

    if no mango butter and i don’t want to add more shea what other option?

    • Kelly
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      January 8, 2019 at 6:48 PM

      You can add one Tablespoon of Cocoa butter. You’ll have only slightly less in volume, but the consistency should be about the same.

  • Nate
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    January 8, 2019 at 8:17 PM

    Do you have weights for the ingredients instead of tablespoons? My beeswax is in block form so not as easy to measure spoonfuls. Thanks!

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 9, 2019 at 3:41 PM

      1 Tablespoon beeswax is about 1/2 ounce.

    • Mary J Collins
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      January 13, 2019 at 9:24 AM

      Break a chunk off and use a cheese grater to get the amount needed.

      • Riana
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        November 1, 2019 at 5:58 AM

        Could this he used safely for dogs?

        • Kelly
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          November 2, 2019 at 10:12 AM

          It’s not the type of conditioner that would be beneficial for dogs since it’s more of an oil, but it may be helpful on dry spots.

          • Riana

            November 12, 2019 at 9:47 AM

            Thank you … am trying to find something for dogs with sensitive skin and then the silky long haired pekingese doggies whose hair tangles and becomes difficult to brush and knot. Getting so much conflicting information on the net that my brain is spinning!

  • lynley
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    January 9, 2019 at 2:57 AM

    Hi there these bars sound fantastic, I don’t have any regular bees wax but do have bees wax pastilles, would these work for this recipe? Thank you

    • Kelly
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      January 9, 2019 at 3:39 PM

      Yes, that will work great.

  • Chelsey Bourgeois
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    January 10, 2019 at 11:41 PM

    Just wondering why my hair feels so greasy after washing?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 12, 2019 at 4:03 PM

      You definitely need to adjust the amount you use based on our hair needs.

    • Coni
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      October 2, 2019 at 12:35 PM

      Im going to try the recipe! ❤️

  • Lisa
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    January 18, 2019 at 3:11 AM

    Hi, very excited about these bars and made a batch. They have dried and are completely solid. Only problem is how oily the hair is left. Is there an ingredient to perhaps lessen/increase another? I have thick long hair and hubby has short hair. I thought we’d used is sparingly.
    Any tips or suggestions?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 18, 2019 at 5:59 PM

      If it doesn’t work well for your hair, you can use it as a deep conditioner, treating your hair and then washing out. Your hair may do better with an herbal conditioning rinse instead: https://simplelifemom.com/2013/09/28/10-herbal-organic-hair-rinses/

  • liv
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    January 23, 2019 at 10:21 PM

    Hi! I have thinner hair and it gets oily easily. I tend to shampoo and condition it every day just because, if I don’t, it gets very greasy. I see that you recommend the hair rinses for thinner hair and I was wondering how often I should do the hair rinse?

    • Kelly
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      January 24, 2019 at 12:38 PM

      Quite often oily hair is caused by constant washing. The more you wash, the more you strip the oils from your scalp and trigger a new release of oils. If you can slowly stretch the time between washes to 4 or 5 days it will help the overall health of your hair. You can rinse once or twice between these washes. You can also rinse with water between washes and just use the hair rinses as conditioners after washing.

  • Gillian
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    January 27, 2019 at 3:36 AM

    Hi. I’ve made these last night with the hope of trying one this morning. First of all, thank you for the recipe. My bars seem very soft though. They have absolutely moulded but as soon as I pick it up its melting in my hand. Is this correct or am I needing to add a further hardening agent ? Many thanks in advance
    G

    • Kelly
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      January 29, 2019 at 11:44 AM

      Hi G, It sounds like you were a little short on cocoa butter or beeswax. You can easily melt them again and add a tablespoon of cocoa butter and pour them again. That should be enough to make them a nice hard consistency.

  • Nikki
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    January 29, 2019 at 2:30 AM

    I have a friend that has horrible psoriasis in her hair is there a shampoo and conditioning words that would help her with that??? Thank you in advance

    • Kelly
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      January 29, 2019 at 11:47 AM

      I’m not a doctor, but I have had friends who have had relief switching to a charcoal bar. Your friend could use a charcoal body bar (the one in my shop has tea tree as well http://simplelilfemom.etsy.com) on their head and hair and follow up with an herbal hair rinse like rosemary and lavender water or diluted acv. I recommend those over the bar because you can really get to the scalp easily with the liquids.

  • Lauren
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    February 3, 2019 at 8:54 AM

    This looks wonderful! Have you had any issues with your bars turning or going rancid, since they last so long? Wondering if a natural preservative like vitamin e oil or grapefruit seed extract would be ok to add to keep them fresh?

    • Kelly
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      February 3, 2019 at 11:09 PM

      I haven’t but I’m sure they will. I’ve had bars like this last 4-6 months at the most, depending on how they’re kept. You can add those ingredients and/or wrap them in plastic wrap to keep them away from oxygen to help them last longer.

    • Marion
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      March 29, 2021 at 12:25 PM

      Hi Kelly
      I just made this, but didn’t have any mango butter. I put another 2 tablespoons of shea butter., and its too soft to take out of the mold. Just wondering how much extra bees wax to add when I re-melt it. thanks in advance
      Marion

      • Kelly
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        March 31, 2021 at 6:40 PM

        I really can’t say without seeing it. I would melt and add a combination of cocoa and beeswax.

  • Kristine
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    February 12, 2019 at 3:20 AM

    The ingredients does not include lye, with the ingredients here will it still be hard as soap? Thanks

    • Kelly
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      February 12, 2019 at 7:58 AM

      Correct. This is not a soap bar, but more like a hydrating and balancing bar for your hair.

      • Kristine
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        February 13, 2019 at 1:22 AM

        Thanks so much ms. Kelly 🙂

  • Charlotte
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    March 4, 2019 at 9:32 AM

    I made myself a small batch yesterday only to realize that I forgot to add the coconut oil…
    I also did 15 drops of peppermint and 15 drops of tea tree oil instead of lavender.

    My question is, does it matter that I forgot to add the coconut oil? I plan to use it either way, but considering how new I am at this, I want to make sure this isn’t a big mistake.

    Let me know what you think.

    • Kelly
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      March 9, 2019 at 4:51 PM

      Got it! No, if they set up and seem to add enough to your hands when rubbed so that you can incorporate a small mount into your hair, then it should be fine.

  • Stephanie
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    March 4, 2019 at 5:37 PM

    How do you wrap the conditioner bars after you take it out from the mold?

    • Kelly
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      March 9, 2019 at 4:49 PM

      I’ve just placed my extra bars in a zip close bag. This will help keep the oils fresh until use.

  • Sharon Brown
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    March 20, 2019 at 2:46 PM

    I made this (love the recipe) but when I melted the Hard oils, I had gotten the the bees wax pastilles and they never melted. I went ahead and tried it anyway. They hardened nicely in the frig, but once taking out, they soften slightly. Tried using them on my hair and again a little to soft and may have seemed a bit more oily. The Shampoo bar worked awesome!!! What went wrong or can I change something or is that how it works??? Thanks!
    Sharon

    • Kelly
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      March 22, 2019 at 7:56 AM

      Bees wax requires a higher temperature to melt, you needed to turn up the heat and stir it for longer to let those last pastilles melt. If your bees wax is not incorporated then the whole product is going to be softer, since they add hardness to the bar.

  • Stacie
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    March 20, 2019 at 11:56 PM

    Hi. Thank you so much for this recipe. It’s the only one I found that doesn’t use btms. I used all the ingredients but it is very soft. I remelted it and added a tablespoon of cocoa butter and remolded them. It’s still too soft. Do you think I could add more beeswax? Any ideas you have so that I can fix it? I really want to try it. I just started using shampoo bars.

    • Kelly
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      March 23, 2019 at 7:20 PM

      They won’t be super hard like a soap bar. If they are too soft to un-mold then you can melt and add 1-2 teaspoons of bees wax.

  • Tracy
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    March 29, 2019 at 4:10 PM

    Hi Kelly I was wondering I cut it up in pieces and incorporate with the shampoo bar to make a 2 n 1

    • Kelly
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      March 30, 2019 at 6:39 PM

      How are you thinking about incorporating, melt and pour or just lightly heating and “smashing” together?
      I haven’t tried that, but it may work wonderfully depending on your hair type.

  • Debbie
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    April 1, 2019 at 8:54 AM

    Firstly, I would like to say I love your book Natural soap making for beginners! I bought a few soap making books when I first started out, but this is the one I return to again and again.

    I’m wondering if I added Leucidal Liquid SF to the conditioner bar, would it increase the shelf life, and if so for how long? My understanding through research is that it’s a natural preservative, is that correct?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      April 1, 2019 at 9:27 AM

      Because this product doesn’t have water added, keeping them in a sealed bag in a cool location after making them will help them last for a few months.
      Concerning Leucidal, instead of being derived from radish root, recent studies suggest what’s on the market is derived from petroleum processing. https://pubs.acs.org/doi/full/10.1021/jf5063588
      Because of the risk, I wouldn’t use it. Essential oils that you add can do the work of killing bacteria for a time.

  • Anna
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    April 1, 2019 at 12:28 PM

    This looks amazing! I’ve been looking for a homemade conditioner without the btms. I do however have a coconut allergy and was wondering how to adjust the recipe to omit it.
    Thanks!

    • Kelly
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      April 2, 2019 at 10:35 AM

      You can use mango butter in place of coconut.

  • Margarita
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    April 6, 2019 at 12:45 PM

    So, I’ve been trying to go plastic free and have been buying shampoo bars and doing an ACV rinse, but since I have curly hair, my hair has gotten super dry. I also started making my own hair gel with flax seed, but it didn’t solve the dryness. I know some of you might say that I should just not shampoo my hair as often, but I’m outside a lot and usually wear a hat for the sun. My head gets pretty sweaty and stinky. And sweaty, stinky, frizzy curly hair is super no bueno. At any rate, I’ve been pretty desperate for a conditioner. I thought I’d give this recipe a try. First, it was pretty simple. I couldn’t find any mango butter locally so I just did 3 tbsps of shea and 3tbsps of cocoa. Also, I microwaved everything in a pyrex measuring glass on high, 20 seconds at a time, stirring in between because I’m lazy and don’t want to wash too many dishes. It worked fine, though, as people have mentioned, the beeswax does take more time to melt. Be patient! Poured mixture into plastic molds. The bars were ready in a couple of hours.. I used as instructed. Lathered my hands sparingly, ran the conditioner through just my hair, mostly the ends. It did feel pretty greasy/waxy. I ran my hair under hot water to help distribute it. I have to tell you, I was leery because even after rinsing it was pretty waxy feeling. But I dabbed my hair with a towel, let it air dry, curled it some with my fingers/scrunching, went to bed. Today my hair is super soft, super curly, no frizz and ZERO greasy, waxy feeling! Hooray!!! I didn’t even need to use hair gel! Thank you so much for this recipe! I hope it helps someone else in a similar situation. At the rate I’ll be using the bars, they’ll probably last a year or more!

    • Kelly
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      April 8, 2019 at 2:49 PM

      Thanks for sharing your experience. Yes! When you figure out the bet way to use them for your hair, they are amazing!

  • Amy
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    April 8, 2019 at 9:16 AM

    Hi and thanks so much for sharing. Do you have an alternative to bees wax? Looking for a vegan alternative that would also not build up on the hair. Thanks

    • Kelly
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      April 8, 2019 at 2:48 PM

      Non gmo soy, wax, carnauba wax, candelilla wax

    • Donna Mathers
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      March 28, 2021 at 7:20 PM

      Rice Bran Wax is also a good vegan alternative.

      • Brandi
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        October 26, 2021 at 6:49 PM

        Is there an alternative to use in the place of argon oil?

        • Kelly
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          October 27, 2021 at 4:20 PM

          You can sub every liquid oil for another, and hard butters for others similar, but every change will effect the outcome and effect. I would replace the argon oil with avocado if pressed.

  • MELISSA
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    April 17, 2019 at 1:35 PM

    Thanks for this recipe! Always love when I can make a product myself. I’m sensitive to the fragrance of cocoa and shea butter, so I only want to use the mango butter and other oils, how would I adjust recipe? Best

    • Kelly
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      April 18, 2019 at 6:18 PM

      You can try and replace cocoa and shea with just mango. I would start with slightly less liquid oils. If you think the bar will not melt and spread well on your hand you can always melt and add a little more oil.

  • Stephen
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    April 24, 2019 at 8:52 PM

    Sounds like a great recipie! Would it be possible to add sweet almond oil in place of the avacado oil? Also, if I took out the mango butter, what would I need to add more of from the existing ingredients to make it the same consistency? Thank you!

    • Kelly
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      April 27, 2019 at 2:15 PM

      You can sub sweet almond oil for avocado oil. If you are removing the mango butter, just replace it with shea.

  • Charlene
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    May 1, 2019 at 9:28 AM

    Can cetearyl alcohol and silk be added to your recipe.

    • Kelly
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      May 2, 2019 at 8:58 AM

      Yes, it may change the ingredient amounts, but you can play around with amounts if you prefer. There’s really no need to add cetearyl alcohol though. It just makes foam.

  • Daisha
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    May 6, 2019 at 1:28 AM

    If I use too much cocoa butter, will the bar become too soft? Also what does the alkaline pH of cocoa butter affect in the bar?

    • Kelly
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      May 6, 2019 at 8:05 AM

      Real cocoa butter is extremely hard so there’s no problem with hardness there. Cocoa is acidic and too much can lead to brittle hair.

  • Janet
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    May 6, 2019 at 6:49 AM

    I’m very excited to make this and your shampoo. Am ordering molds and ingredients. Is there an easy way to print this recipe without having to use 17 pieces of paper? Thx

    • Kelly
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      May 6, 2019 at 8:06 AM

      You can cut and copy, otherwise I don’t have a print button on it right now.

  • Jeannette
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    May 7, 2019 at 4:16 PM

    Hi. I just have a couple of questions. Is there a possible alternative for mango butter and an alternative for the Argan oil?

    I’m having a difficult time finding these locally and do to cost in ordering online, I would prefer to try an alternative for my first good at this recipe. Then I can decide from there if I want to make more of an finical investment in ordering online.

    Thanks

    • Kelly
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      May 8, 2019 at 4:41 AM

      You can replace mango butter with shea butter and argan oil with another oil you have on hand.

  • Kerryn
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    May 13, 2019 at 2:58 AM

    Hi, was wondering if I can use Shea butter in place of both mango & coco butter? if so, would I need to add more beeswax?

    • Kelly
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      May 13, 2019 at 2:26 PM

      You start to loose a lot of the good qualities the more you eliminate ingredients, but you can. Shea and mango butter is 1:1 but taking out the cocoa will make it softer and you probably will need more beeswax. Your recipe may be too waxy once you add enough to make it hard.

  • Jorja
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    May 13, 2019 at 3:41 AM

    Hi, just wondering if you can remelt already molded shampoo bars like you can with the conditioners bars please?

    • Kelly
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      May 13, 2019 at 2:24 PM

      You can but the process is a little different. The shampoo bar can crust when trying to melt and can loose a lot of moisture and become dry and flaky. You’ll need to slice or shave, place in a low temperature slow cooker or double boiler over low heat, and cover with plastic wrap to seal in moisture. Do not stir. Wait until it is completely melted before adding any essential oil or anything else. Stir and scoop into a mold.

  • Lynette Bullock
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    May 13, 2019 at 9:05 PM

    Why would you use beeswax in the conditioner bar? Is it strictly to help it harden? If so wouldn’t using more mango and/or cocoa butter work just as well? I just think that adding beeswax would coat the hair??

    • Kelly
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      May 17, 2019 at 5:43 PM

      Great questions. Beeswax helps to hydrate hair and seal the follicles. It will not coat the hair at a low percentage in the recipe. It will leave a waxy feeling if in high amount, which is what I’ve been trying to explain to people who want to skip ingredients and change up the recipe. It’s something to be careful of, but definitely a benefit to hair in small quantities.

  • Cherelle (ME) Washington
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    May 14, 2019 at 5:00 PM

    Do you place mold in refrigerator to get hard or let them sit out?

    • Kelly
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      May 17, 2019 at 5:41 PM

      Just let them sit out.

  • Jemma
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    May 17, 2019 at 9:29 PM

    Hi, I’m wondering if I can add honey to the avocado shampoo bar recipe? If so is pure honey okay or does it need to be raw? TIA

    • Kelly
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      May 19, 2019 at 8:40 AM

      Yes, you can add whatever honey you believe is healthy. I add a teaspoon per pound of soap.

  • Layla
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    May 20, 2019 at 8:58 PM

    This sounds like a solid mosturizer recipe, simple and I love it, can’t wait to try! Love the fact that has only oils and butters, I had only found reciepes with cetyl alcohol and glycerin, both of which is very hard for me to buy where I leave, but the butters I can find!
    I have a little question, can I use more cocoa butter instead of beeswax? I’d like to make one for my sis, but she is vegan and I don’t have acess to candelila wax.

  • Nancy
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    May 28, 2019 at 11:57 AM

    Thank you very much for sharing! If I don’t have the Argon oil, what is a good substitute?

    • Kelly
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      May 28, 2019 at 10:43 PM

      Avocado oil is also great on hair.

    • Cristal Fortine
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      December 7, 2020 at 1:02 AM

      Castor oil would be good roo.

  • Rica
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    May 30, 2019 at 9:46 PM

    Hi, unfortunately, I react to base fatty acid that makes up shea, cocoa and mango butters. Do you have any recommendations on how to omit these ingredients and what to replace them with?

    • Kelly
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      June 1, 2019 at 7:44 AM

      Use an apple cider vinegar diluted in half with water to spray on your hair as a conditioner. Rinse after spraying.

  • Heidi
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    June 4, 2019 at 6:40 PM

    Hi Kelly, thanks for sharing the recipe, I am so excited about it ?
    Just got my small batch out of the mold and found that they start melting on my hands just by touching them, I wonder what you would suggest to make them a bit firmer? At the moment I just put them in the fridge. Should I melt them again and add some more beeswax?
    I would also like to ask how do you store them in the shower to prevent them melting away?
    Thanks a lot for sharing ♥️

  • Helen
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    June 5, 2019 at 5:31 PM

    Hi there,
    I notice you mention the PH level and that you wanted to create a balancing / slightly acidic conditioner bar to balance out the effects of natural shampoo as it’s alkaline (which is exactly what I’ve been looking to do!). Could you tell me what the PH level of this conditioner bar is, please?

    • Kelly
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      June 11, 2019 at 9:25 AM

      It is only slightly acidic.

  • Nesli
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    June 10, 2019 at 4:27 PM

    Hi Kelly,

    Loving all your recipes!
    Would adding BTMS make is not natural? And would it make is any different then not adding?
    Thank you.

    • Kelly
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      June 11, 2019 at 9:18 AM

      What would be the reason? It already has a slippery feel due to the other ingredients…
      It hasn’t had a lot of research done on it, so because it seems unnecessary I would not use.

  • emma
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    June 13, 2019 at 12:48 PM

    Hi! If I wanted to add castor oil, could i add it in addition to everything else or should I replace the almond oil for example?

    • Kelly
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      June 13, 2019 at 3:08 PM

      Yes, you can try that and see how the texture works. It should be fine.

  • Janet
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    June 17, 2019 at 7:48 AM

    Hi – just checking – I don’t see the message I left here yesterday about what to do about my conditioner bars leaving my hair so waxy that I had to shampoo it out. Can I remelt the bars and maybe add shea butter or something else? Thanks

    • Kelly
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      June 17, 2019 at 8:57 AM

      Yes, adding more shea or cocoa butter will definitely help, but make sure you are not applying too much.

      • Janet
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        June 7, 2021 at 9:20 AM

        I remelted my conditioner bars that were waxy feeling on my hair (have fine straight hair that falls about three inches below my shoulders and do not use the conditioner on my head but only from my ears down to detangle as even store bought conditioners make my hair against my scalp look greasy quickly). I added a T of shea butter and a disc (1 tsp?) of cocoa butter and now my hair is really greasy at the ends. I barely use any. Any recommendations? If this conditioner won’t work for me, any thoughts on something else I can turn it into? I hate wasting anything! Thx

  • Janet Simons Folger
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    June 17, 2019 at 7:32 PM

    OK. Thanx. You mean applying too much of the conditioner bar – right?

    • Kelly
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      June 18, 2019 at 10:12 AM

      Correct

  • Penny Harris
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    June 25, 2019 at 9:37 PM

    Thank you for sharing such a wonderful recipe. Have read all the comments and wrote down the answers to possible issues.
    Love that this is all natural ingredients.

  • Sarah
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    June 29, 2019 at 6:57 PM

    Could this recipe be made without the beeswax and kept in a jar?

    • Kelly
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      July 1, 2019 at 7:54 PM

      Yes, you can definitely do that.

  • kari
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    July 11, 2019 at 1:37 PM

    This recipe is absolutely incredible. I tried it and it worked so well for my hair. I have been following you for quite sometime and I was so happy to find a lye free and chemical free conditioner bar (with ingredients I can read!). Can you make a similar recipe for shampoo or any advice? Sodium Hydroxide gives me rashes and I can’t make soap with lye. I’m looking specifically for a hard bar similar to this. Any suggestions?

    • Kelly
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      July 15, 2019 at 11:55 AM

      There’s no lye left in soaps made with sodium hydroxide. Zero! So that can’t be the ingredient you’re allergic to. If it touched your skin it would have given you a rash because it’s harsh on the skin directly before the chemical reaction….

  • Wanda
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    July 13, 2019 at 7:26 AM

    Can you leave them in the shower all the time if on a pad to dry out?

    • Kelly
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      July 15, 2019 at 8:07 AM

      Yes you can.

  • Andrea Orgyan
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    July 30, 2019 at 3:18 PM

    Hi could be a soap base and conditioner bar made with a same oils? Even add some extra butter or oils?

    • Kelly
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      July 31, 2019 at 8:10 AM

      You can use these oils to make a good shampoo bar. Make sure to put it through a lye calculator.

  • Christina
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    August 6, 2019 at 12:15 AM

    I love the idea of a hair conditioner bar with no BTMS. Do you have the measurements in oz or grams rather than tablespoon which is difficult to measure out?

    many thanks,

    Christina

    • Kelly
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      August 7, 2019 at 10:34 AM

      You can convert online if you need to.

  • Mary Ann Torres
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    August 6, 2019 at 1:53 PM

    Hi, I made the bars but substituted 3 Tbsp shea + 4 Tbsp cocoa for the mango butter which I don’t have. I also added an extra tablespoon of bee’s wax pellets to the recipe. The bars are still super soft. What are your thoughts?

    • Kelly
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      August 7, 2019 at 10:27 AM

      It could be where you live in the summer heat and with the substitutions that you need to add a little more hard oils. I would melt them down again and add a little more cocoa butter.

  • Megan
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    August 10, 2019 at 2:28 AM

    Do these lather up (go bubbly) I find a lot of conditioner bars don’t but I like it when they do

    • Kelly
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      August 11, 2019 at 9:19 AM

      No, no bubbles.

  • Debbie E
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    August 10, 2019 at 3:01 PM

    Hi Kelly!
    This recipe looks amazing and on my to do list. I incorporate kokum butter in small amounts in the body butter I make for my eczema. If I add kokum butter to your recipe should I reduce the amount of beeswax since kokum is so hard? Thanx!

    • Kelly
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      August 11, 2019 at 9:17 AM

      Yes, you can definitely use kokum butter and sub some of the beeswax out.

  • Renee
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    August 20, 2019 at 1:06 PM

    Good afternoon.. I have Almond Oil on hand, I’m out of avocado oil. Can I replace.? I have long black hair more on the dry side. Thank you.

    • Kelly
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      August 21, 2019 at 7:41 AM

      It’s not ideal, but you can use almond oil in the recipe.

  • Jan
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    August 23, 2019 at 11:49 AM

    Can I substitute avocado butter for the mango butter?

    • Kelly
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      August 27, 2019 at 2:32 PM

      Yes you can. Avocado oil is wonderful for hair, but you may need to add some extra cocoa butter or bees wax to get the harness desired.

  • Klaudia
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    August 27, 2019 at 7:57 AM

    Hi Kelly 🙂
    Could this recipe be made without the beeswax? I am vegan and I don’t want use beeswax, maybe I can swap beeswax and use soy wax instead? Or that is not work like that?
    Thank you,
    Klaudia xx

    • Kelly
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      August 27, 2019 at 2:26 PM

      Yes you can do that. You need the bees wax for hydration and hardness, but a natural wax substitute may work just as well.

  • Lydia Burns
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    August 31, 2019 at 6:12 PM

    Thanks for this. Can’t wait to make them and the shampoo bars. I already make my own soaps which I sometimes use on my hair. I will let you know how it goes.

  • Stacy Bates
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    September 6, 2019 at 7:10 AM

    I am so excited to try these! Should I be worried about this clogging the drain when rinsing?

    • Kelly
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      September 6, 2019 at 1:54 PM

      You should be using a tiny amount that you work through your hair. Very little will be going into the water and drain so you should be fine.

  • Clasina
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    September 6, 2019 at 5:59 PM

    Fabulous recipe…love the conditioning bars…thank you

  • Jennifer
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    September 6, 2019 at 6:22 PM

    Hi. Is there a substitute for mango butter? My mom is deathly allergic to mango.

    • Kelly
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      September 6, 2019 at 8:00 PM

      You can use shea butter.

  • Jenny
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    September 13, 2019 at 5:57 AM

    Hi, are argon oil and argen oil the same product? Looking forward to trying you recipe.

    • Kelly
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      September 15, 2019 at 4:36 PM

      Yes it is.

  • Easy Does It
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    September 18, 2019 at 7:44 PM

    Thanks for sharing your recipe for conditioner. I make my own shampoo bars and have been looking for a conditioner recipe.

  • kavneet
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    September 27, 2019 at 8:43 AM

    hey! since it has oils and butters wont it make the hair oily?

    • Kelly
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      September 27, 2019 at 11:58 AM

      Yes it will if you don’t use it correctly. If you have oily hair then you may want to use the apple cider vinegar method instead.

  • Barbara Chaitman
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    September 29, 2019 at 1:48 PM

    Thank you SO much for this recipe. It was exactly what I was looking for and I had to look a long time to find such a great recipe online too.

    .I’ve been looking for literally weeks for a good all natural conditioner bar recipe. And ALL the ones I found had what I also consider questionable ingredients in them. I was not ready to make any of those i found. But I kept looking.

    Then I found your site, noticed I already had ALL the ingredients to make it in the house and all the ingedients were healthy and natural as I wanted. So I just ran off to make it.

    It is cooling now and just smells wonderful so far. For my EOs I used 14 drops of Ylang Ylang, 9 of Roman Chamomile, 4 of Vanilla and then 3 of Lavender.

    Thank you again, I was so happy to have found this. It was exactky what I wanted.

  • Barbara Chaitman
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    September 30, 2019 at 8:58 PM

    PS. Just tried it and my hair just dried and I LOVE it. It works perfectly with my shampoo bar that I make which has some glycerine melt and pour base in. It. Lovevthe shampoo too but it was only slightly drying.

    The combination of thr 2 is perfect.! My hair is in great shape now and smells terrific, with no chemicals used.

    Also. My hair is shinier with your conditioner than before using it. So it looks better too.

    So a second thank you from me.

    • Kelly
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      October 2, 2019 at 9:22 PM

      Wonderful!

    • Yukta
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      December 2, 2019 at 4:14 PM

      Hey! I’m from India and I’m really looking forward to trying this recipe! Just a concern is it’s really hot here.. would that make any difference in the oils hardening ? Also if there are no preservatives etc how long would these bars last? It’s around 40°C here :/
      Also Argan oil and Avacado oil isn’t very easily available here.. can they both be replaced?
      Thanks a ton!

      • Kelly
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        December 3, 2019 at 6:06 PM

        You can replace those oils pretty easily with oils on hand. I always recommend running it through a lye calculator just in case though.
        In hot weather, oils tend to go rancid faster. Try to keep them in a dry place where they can get some air. Labels and sealing with moisture will cause mold.
        You’ll know they’re off because they’ll get a musty, dust scent to them.

  • Adelle
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    October 18, 2019 at 3:47 PM

    Good afternoon,
    I was wondering if you had an alternative to the mango butter, due to allergies.
    Thank you!

    • Kelly
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      October 21, 2019 at 5:24 PM

      Just use more shea butter or a combination of shea and cocoa.

  • Laura S
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    October 21, 2019 at 7:34 AM

    Would it work to substitute olive oil for the avocado oil?

    • Kelly
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      October 21, 2019 at 5:21 PM

      You can, you just lose some of the good qualities for your hair when you do.

  • Maria
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    November 16, 2019 at 10:29 AM

    I’m completely new to this idea and DIY project. I like the simplicity of your recipe! I read on a different blog that Vitamin E helps preserve this type of bar. Is this something you would recommend for anyone concerned about keeping the bar from going “bad”. I wouldn’t want to encourage mold/mildew to form on something I”m putting on my hair. That’s a little too organic for my tastes. lol. Thanks for any advice you can send my way!

    • Kelly
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      November 26, 2019 at 11:57 PM

      You can add a little bit of vitamin e oil or rosemary essential oil. Both are known for slowing oxidation in oils. No mold should grow if they’re kept in a dry location. If anything, over time you would smell the oils going bad (dusty, musty smell).

  • Camille
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    November 16, 2019 at 8:26 PM

    I am wondering what oil to use in place of Argon ? You said any oil would work (I think) , aren’t there different benefits to the oils ?

    • Kelly
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      November 26, 2019 at 11:25 PM

      There are different benefits to the oils. Argan is more expensive but you can substitute avocado or coconut if needed.

  • LeeAnn
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    December 8, 2019 at 4:52 PM

    Hello I want to lake the conditionet nar but what can I use in place of the mango butter?
    Thank you LA

    • Kelly
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      December 20, 2019 at 8:04 PM

      You can use cocoa butter.

  • Alex
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    December 9, 2019 at 3:20 PM

    Hi are there any other cheaper options for the listed ingrediants? Thanks

    • Kelly
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      December 9, 2019 at 6:34 PM

      Just use Apple cider vinegar diluted 50% with water as a conditioner. And/or use avocado oil by rubbing it on your hands and then start at your roots and then work carefully through hair without making your hair greasy.

  • Penha
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    December 11, 2019 at 4:38 PM

    Hello. I really like your recipes and tips. I am loving everything.
    I’m from Brazil and I’m looking forward to making these wonderful conditioner bars.
    I do not know if you do that there, but here we have the habit of using creams to comb the hair. Would it be advisable to leave some of this hair bar conditioner in place of this cream that I referred to?

    Thank you for sharing your knowledge!

    • Kelly
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      December 20, 2019 at 8:04 PM

      Yes, I wouldn’t use them together. Try one or the other.

  • Penha
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    December 11, 2019 at 4:44 PM

    And one more thing. To increase the recipe is just going to double the ingredients or have any formula to follow?
    Thank you!

    • Kelly
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      December 20, 2019 at 8:03 PM

      Sometimes doubling makes enough changes that the quantities need to be changed slightly. What’s nice is that this recipe can be remelted and more liquid or hard ingredients can be added to change the hardness.

  • Jasmine
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    December 18, 2019 at 1:07 PM

    Hey there!
    Wow, lots of questions.. you are very knowledgeable!
    So, i have hope that maybe you could point my in the right direction ….

    I used a homemade shampoo using Castile soap (dr bronners) from WellnessMama website, maybe you know it? Since then, no matter what I’ve used, my scalp feels painful. It can feel like I’ve had my sunburned scalp/hair in a tight tight ponytail for days. That is on the worst day. It can be sharp and stinging 3 days after a wash.
    I’m thinking it could be from sustaining damage from the Castile soap??
    I’m currently using soap nuts and they help to ease the pain, so it seems as though my scalp needs moisture.
    I find the more dry my scalp gets the worse the pain becomes and since I’ve transitioned to soapnuts my scalp makes little to no oil. (My hair used to be super oily it’s so weird). I was thinking maybe wash more, soapnuts are moisturizing and maybe this will prompt my scalp to produce more oils??
    I plan to try your conditioning bar, but I’m worried it may be too heavy for my hair. I’ve got curly hair too, it’s fairly thick not super super thick but thick lol.

    I’ve tried putting coconut oil on my scalp after a wash but it only made the volume of my hair die. So maybe conditioner bar and then wash out? I have yet to try.

    In addition to the pain I have dandruff which coconut oil seems to help a lot with, so I have lots of hope for your conditioning bar.
    I thought as well maybe an herbal rinse would help to heal something no my scalp.

    Maybe it’s no matter of healing it moisturizing. I don’t know!

    If there’s anything you could recommend that would help I would greatly appreciate it!:)

    • Kelly
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      December 20, 2019 at 7:52 PM

      I know some people have a reaction to olive oil. I wonder if it’s one of those ingredients that’s bothering your scalp. It sounds like coconut is helping so it’s not that. I have a goat milk shampoo bar in my shop that is very soothing to irritated scalps. That followed by a diluted (in half with water) acv spray as a conditioner or using this conditioner bar mainly on the scalp may help. I’m glad the soap nuts are helping…Driness or even oily hair from over producing scalp pores can take a while to balance after going through an ordeal. Unless here’s an internal issue going on it sounds like you’re on the right track for healing.

  • Teresa McWilliam
    · Reply

    December 18, 2019 at 9:46 PM

    I just made these and they’re cooling! Great recipe with a variety of beneficial oils and butters! Thank you so much!

  • Hanna Strong
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    December 27, 2019 at 3:04 PM

    Thanks for the recipe. I had most of the ingredients on hand and substituted apricot for argon and adjusted the butters And wax as recommended because I didn’t have cocoa butter. My hair is super soft and loosely curley. I will make this again, for sure!

  • Annette
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    January 5, 2020 at 11:52 AM

    I have a dry scalp but my hair gets quite greasy would this be any good for my hair

    • Kelly
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      January 6, 2020 at 9:02 PM

      I would work on balancing your hair with a good shampoo bar and use a diluted (50% with water) acv spray as a conditioner. Once you get the oiliness under control you can use something like this as a deep conditioner or styling oil.

  • kat
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    January 12, 2020 at 7:41 AM

    Hi! can I make this without beeswax? thank you!

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 12, 2020 at 3:13 PM

      If you remove the beeswax, you remove a lot of the moisturizing aspect of the conditioner bar, but they can still be beneficial. I would replace it with cocoa butter, but you’d have to play with the amounts. You’ll need more than just as one to one replacement.

      • Kat
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        January 13, 2020 at 1:57 AM

        Ok! Thanks! Coz iv read that beeswax can build up in hair and can be hard to remove. If you have any suggestions how to remove them once they build up i’d really appreciate it.

        • Kelly
          · Reply

          Author
          January 13, 2020 at 10:28 AM

          The best way to get rid of buildup is baking soda. This should NOT be done daily. Doing it daily as a fad is what destroyed a lot of people’s hair. But using it as a clarifier to remove buildup works wonderfully.

  • pattie
    · Reply

    January 13, 2020 at 2:33 PM

    How long do we need to let the mold set?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      January 13, 2020 at 2:43 PM

      Just until it sets and is cool.

  • Ashley
    · Reply

    January 16, 2020 at 4:36 PM

    I have fine hair and what I do is condition before I wash… I’ll put an oil based conditioner on my head with serán for about 10 minutes and then wash it out with a natural shampoo. Works for me ????????‍♀️

  • Jillian M Hettinga
    · Reply

    January 21, 2020 at 11:53 AM

    is this recipe available in a printable version? I have he article copied in email, but didn’t notice a print option for just the recipe

  • Anne
    · Reply

    January 22, 2020 at 9:42 PM

    Hi, can I add pro vitamin b5 to the the solid bar conditioner recipe? And how much? Thank you

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      January 23, 2020 at 4:51 PM

      You can. Panthenol is commonly used as an emulsifier. Since there are not waters added to this recipe it is not needed, but it does add a silky feel. Vit b5 is not the same as panthnol. It is already converted to b5 where Panthenol is not. I don’t use it because it is a synthetic ingredient, but almost all studies show it to be harmless. I would start with 1/2 teaspoon.

  • Rita
    · Reply

    January 28, 2020 at 6:07 PM

    Is it possible to use cocoa Butter to replace both Shea and mango butters? (That’s the only one I have at home)..

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      January 28, 2020 at 6:11 PM

      Yes you can. The end result will be different, but I’m sure you can work with it and figure out how it best suits your hair.

  • Izahmarcial
    · Reply

    March 7, 2020 at 9:18 AM

    Can I just microwave all ingredients instead of using a double boiler? Thanks.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      March 7, 2020 at 11:16 AM

      That’s up to you. I don’t use a microwave for many reasons, one being that it’s difficult not to burn part or all of the ingredients.

  • Poprock16
    · Reply

    March 26, 2020 at 1:18 AM

    This recipe came out so soft I doubt it would travel well. I had to add extra beeswax in order to get it hard enough to get it out of the mold. Thank you for starting me on my own path to making conditioner bars. This recipients a starting point. I do love all the ingredients and I had them on hand.

  • Rebecca Sprague
    · Reply

    March 31, 2020 at 10:11 AM

    How would adding honey to this bar affect it?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      March 31, 2020 at 10:24 AM

      Honey is a humectant. It traps moisture on the hair without it being greasy. A lot of people have issues getting the quantity correct when using a more oil centered conditioner bar. The honey and aloe help to condition in a way that makes it easier to get right when applying.

  • Lorness
    · Reply

    April 11, 2020 at 6:06 AM

    Hi I have an allergy to coconut what alternative can I use instead?

    Thanks

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      April 11, 2020 at 1:29 PM

      You can leave it out and add more shea butter.

  • Subi
    · Reply

    April 15, 2020 at 4:17 AM

    Hi, this is a wonderful conditioner bar. Can u plz suggest what can I use, if I dont want to use bees wax . Thank you

  • Andrew Trotman
    · Reply

    April 15, 2020 at 8:41 AM

    Hi
    Do these conditioner bars last. do they need a preservative added.

    Thanks

  • Marie
    · Reply

    April 25, 2020 at 2:30 AM

    Hi. On the bees wax—is it grated or melted measurement?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      April 26, 2020 at 9:09 AM

      It’s in weight so either way is fine.

  • Amanda
    · Reply

    April 25, 2020 at 2:52 AM

    Hi there, would I be able to substitute bees wax for soy wax in this recipe?
    Many thanks
    Amanda x

    • Kelly
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      Author
      April 26, 2020 at 9:08 AM

      Yes, you can.

  • Amy
    · Reply

    April 28, 2020 at 1:04 AM

    Do you have a version of the recipe that uses weight instead of Tablespoon/teaspoon measurements? It seems like it would be harder to gauge the proper amount of the more firm ingredients, like beeswax. Thanks, this sounds really interesting! I would like to try it!

    • Kelly
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      Author
      April 30, 2020 at 1:48 PM

      It doesn’t need to be that accurate, so you’re fine using teaspoons and tablespoons.

  • Olive
    · Reply

    April 30, 2020 at 11:19 PM

    Any alternatives to bees wax ? I try to avoid over using honey bee products especially for cosmetic purposes. Over working and over using honey bees and their produce has lead to their demise….

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      May 3, 2020 at 9:57 AM

      Actually, beekeepers are amazing at helping and protecting bees. They never take more than what it fine and healthy for their bees as they love them and want to protect them. If anything, studies have shown that pesticide sprays and cell phone towers are what is killing bees, along with their mite problems that can occur.
      You can use carnauba wax or other vegan substitute.

  • Wei
    · Reply

    May 25, 2020 at 7:34 PM

    Hello,

    I just did a batch yesterday and until today the bar is not harden yet. Is been more than 10hours now. When I touch on it, it will still stick on my finger. Wonder what went wrong. Appreciate if you could help me on this. Thanks in advance.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      May 30, 2020 at 8:29 PM

      It should harden pretty quickly. Did you try putting it in the freezer?
      If it hasn’t hardened by now then you may need to remelt and add more cocoa butter and beeswax.

  • Maria
    · Reply

    June 14, 2020 at 10:37 AM

    Can I put aloe vera into this conditioner bar?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      June 15, 2020 at 4:33 PM

      Check out my recipe for all hair types. It already has aloe and will guide you in how to emulsify the combination of oils and water.

  • Vidhya
    · Reply

    June 14, 2020 at 1:29 PM

    Hi,
    I was in a bad search of a non BTMS conditioner bar and i found yours. I have 2 doubts. Wouldn’t it get spoiled when it comes in contact with water?
    2. If I reduce the wax is there a possibility i can whip it like a conditioner butter? Thanks in advance for clarifying
    Vidhya

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      June 15, 2020 at 4:32 PM

      It will spoil eventually just like any homemade product without preservatives. I’ve used them for weeks at a time and they dry well. I’ve not had any last long enough to spoil.
      Yes you can. I’m not sure how long it would be before the butter consistency would separate.

  • Denise
    · Reply

    June 24, 2020 at 2:56 PM

    How do you store it for traveling?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      June 29, 2020 at 6:55 PM

      I just put it in a soap traveling container or a zip close bag.

  • Juliane
    · Reply

    June 29, 2020 at 11:44 AM

    Hi there. Great recipe, except for the bees wax. I need an animal friendly/vegan alternative. Any suggestions?
    Thanks!

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      June 29, 2020 at 6:39 PM

      You can add more cocoa butter instead of using the bees wax. You’ll lose some of the moisturizing effect but you can make it work.

  • Maureen
    · Reply

    July 6, 2020 at 1:10 AM

    I believe working with locally available ingredients. What freely available for me is coconut oil. Can I make the bar with coconut oil, bees wax. and do only? Thank you so much for taking time to help all of us in our diy hair care journey….

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      July 7, 2020 at 8:45 AM

      At that point I would just coconut oil as a deep conditioner and use a diluted acv spray as a conditioner in the shower.

  • Susannah
    · Reply

    July 6, 2020 at 5:17 PM

    My bars are very soft and squishy, is there a way to make them harder?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      July 7, 2020 at 8:37 AM

      You can melt them, add a little more cocoa butter and then re-whip them.

  • Skye
    · Reply

    July 7, 2020 at 7:55 PM

    Can you do a shampoo and conditioner in one bar please

  • Terri Sidell
    · Reply

    July 22, 2020 at 2:03 PM

    Thanks for all the substitute ingredients, and info!!

  • Jen
    · Reply

    July 31, 2020 at 12:29 PM

    Could I use grapeseed and olive oils instead of argon and avocado?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      August 8, 2020 at 2:13 PM

      You can, but every tie you replace one of the ingredients you lose value since the ingredients were chosen for their specific properties.

  • Amber
    · Reply

    September 8, 2020 at 10:02 PM

    I just came back here to say THANK YOU for sharing your knowledge! I’ve been making your shampoo bar recipe, learning from your posts to tweak it to be tailored to me and enjoying them thoroughly! You did it with those conditioner bars though. I was a bit skeptic at first and, of course, used wayyy too much at first, but I still enjoyed it – I got my curls back! I haven’t seen them in years! My partner and I are addicted to these bars, he loves their feel on his hair and beard. We picked a scent we really love and we just can’t stop sniffing for them. My hair though(!) is thin and had a trauma damage salon visit I’ve been healing from over the past 5 years.. Now I’m only using the bars I learned how to make from you and a castor mask I made up. My hair is healthier than ever and growing super fast and strong (considering my normal pace XD). It’s that distinct that I keep getting compliments for my hair!
    Thank you!!!

  • Nancy
    · Reply

    September 12, 2020 at 7:30 AM

    I really want this to work, but I’ve made this twice and it seems to be a complete oil bar and I have to wash it out! What am I doing wrong? I bought all ingredients except coconut oil and avocado oil which I had in my kitchen. Is there a different non-consumable variety?
    Thank you

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      September 15, 2020 at 1:18 PM

      You need to use a small amount on your finger tips and massage through your hair starting at the tips.
      You can try the recipe for all hair types https://simplelifemom.com/2020/01/26/conditioner-bar-recipe-for-all-hair-types-natural-conditioner-bar/
      If these bars don’t work for you, then you may need to go the rinse route. Try diluted 50% apple cider vinegar and water first. I have other hair rinse recipes on the website.
      Don’t stress about the ingredients. You can always use those same ingredients for other body recipes if needed.

  • Joyce Rottmann
    · Reply

    September 12, 2020 at 11:43 AM

    Hi! Is there any substitute for Argon Oil and Mango?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      September 15, 2020 at 1:13 PM

      You can other butters or oils, just know that the more changes you make the more it will impact the final product.

  • Toni Vargas
    · Reply

    September 21, 2020 at 8:19 AM

    Hi I am from the Philippines. It’s hard to find a mango butter in here.os there any alternative that i can use? Thank you and have a wonderful day.

    Btw thanks so much for sharing this… It will fulfill my dream to make my own conditioner. ?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      September 22, 2020 at 4:34 PM

      You can use other plant based butters like shea butter or even cocoa butter. Some of these will change the consistency.

  • Claudine
    · Reply

    October 11, 2020 at 10:24 PM

    Can we do simply a shea butter and cocoa butter and coconut oil bar? Is it a good one???

    • Kelly
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      Author
      October 13, 2020 at 5:39 PM

      If that works well for your hair type then yes, those are good ingredients. My hair is thirsty for oils and it works well by working into the ends.

  • Jroazy
    · Reply

    November 23, 2020 at 10:33 PM

    Hi I just found your blog and I love it I’m new to soap among and I want to try your conditioner bar what do u think about shake butter and kokum butter will that be too soft. I am making mine for kids so I really wanted to stay away of the alchols and the BTMS and all that stuff so I was so happy to find this blog . Thank you

    • Kelly
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      Author
      November 25, 2020 at 4:08 PM

      It may be too soft. It may be worth the try though.

  • Jamie
    · Reply

    November 28, 2020 at 12:22 PM

    Hi I was wondering if instead of bees was can I use goats milk. I ask because I have a lot of left over goats milk I am hoping to turn into conditioning bars. Thank you ?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      November 30, 2020 at 9:37 PM

      I would use straight goats milk as a conditioner. You can’t replace the bees wax with goats milk in this recipe.

  • Mugdha
    · Reply

    November 29, 2020 at 11:13 AM

    I live in india. This recipe did not work for me as the bars did not harden. Should I try with more beeswax?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      November 30, 2020 at 9:36 PM

      Yes, I would add more cocoa butter and bees wax. You may need to start again if they are extremely soft.

  • Joana Rae Alcala
    · Reply

    December 4, 2020 at 8:04 AM

    Can we add BTMS or Cetyl Alcohol?

  • Denise Wood
    · Reply

    December 18, 2020 at 8:18 AM

    I am super excited to make these but was wondering if there is a substitute oil I can use instead of argon Oil.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      December 21, 2020 at 4:26 PM

      You can use avocado oil in place of the argon oil.

  • Hazel Smith
    · Reply

    January 8, 2021 at 5:22 AM

    Hi there
    I have been using Lush shampoo bars for over a year now and would like to make my own … and conditioning bars. I have read somewhere you ought to put a preservative in to prevent bacteria forming on the bars, do you agree?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      January 10, 2021 at 8:44 PM

      I never use preservatives. Instead, I make what I’m going to use within a week or two and let it dry between uses.

  • Robin
    · Reply

    January 11, 2021 at 4:05 PM

    So I’ve tried making a batch and stored them immediately after they hardened in a sealed container. But they have small bumps on them now. They smell fine (nothing I used was rancid or close to expiry), and I can’t figure out what might be wrong. Help?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 11, 2021 at 9:40 PM

      Sometimes the shea or beeswax can separate from the other ingredients. It has to do with the speed of cooling. You can use as is or melt them again.

  • Claudia
    · Reply

    January 14, 2021 at 1:57 PM

    Hello!

    I’m really interested in making these but I’m looking to make these completely vegan by replacing the beeswax. Are there any replacements you recommend?

    Thanks!!

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      January 18, 2021 at 8:19 PM

      You can use candililla, carnauba, or bayberry wax as a vegan alternative.

  • Serena Birket
    · Reply

    February 11, 2021 at 2:12 PM

    Question. I have thin fine hair that doesn’t get greasy easy. I’ve used acv and hair looks fried. Recommendation?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      February 16, 2021 at 5:46 PM

      Did you use it straight or diluted? Were you “washing” with baking soda or some other harsh cleanser?

  • MaryAnn
    · Reply

    February 20, 2021 at 7:12 AM

    Can I buy a few conditioner bars from you before I purchase the ingredients and make it myself? I have fine hair and don’t want to invest in a bunch of ingredients that I won’t end up using in the long run!

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      February 22, 2021 at 1:22 PM

      I don’t have it in my shop right now. With fine hair I’d recommend a diluted acv spray and rinse.

  • Nadeth
    · Reply

    March 10, 2021 at 6:29 PM

    Good afternoon, can you use this conditioner every day?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      March 22, 2021 at 10:38 PM

      I wouldn’t because it would weigh your hair down. If you want to use something daily, use a herbal spray. I have many recipes on my website here.

  • David
    · Reply

    April 5, 2021 at 12:49 AM

    Hello could you please translate the recipe to being by weight? I’m finding it hard to make the conversions.

  • Teresa C Crumpto
    · Reply

    April 8, 2021 at 9:28 AM

    I’m allergic to coconut but still wanted to try this recipe as I haven’t seen a lot of conditioner bars. I substituted babassu for the coconut, and I’m finding it hard to get a brush through my hair while it’s still wet. I can also feel the oils still. Granted I have long fine hair and a lot of it. Any suggestions? I also made the shampoo out of your book & swapped the coconut out with babassu.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      April 11, 2021 at 3:11 PM

      If you have harder water or are concerned that you have to much left over on your hair, use it on your hair before washing. The combination can sometimes balance the pH and minerals if done this way. If you still have issues then use this as a deep conditioner and use 50% diluted acv on a more regular basis.

  • jane patterson
    · Reply

    April 30, 2021 at 5:40 AM

    I wonna try this for my 2 year old daughter she has curly hair and we just us conditioner on her hair

  • Weronika
    · Reply

    May 6, 2021 at 6:55 AM

    I love how natural this recipe is, however can I replace coconut oil with something else? I’m afraid my hair wouldn’t tolerate this oil.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      May 9, 2021 at 1:02 PM

      You can, but it will alter the recipe and consistency.

  • Mary Kathryn Christiansen
    · Reply

    May 19, 2021 at 3:01 PM

    Hi. I made one batch of this conditioning bar, You mentioned that it should lather. My husband and I have tried, but there is no lather — it’s not a soap, so can it lather? Also, I had trouble getting the amounts accurate, so I converted each oil to grams, and am hoping I get a better result. It was rather heavy and oily, my husband said. He didn’t like it in his hair, but he LOVED it in his beard as a conditioner. Thanks!

  • Tonia Liggett-Plant
    · Reply

    May 28, 2021 at 9:20 AM

    Hi I followed your recipe but the bar is quite soft and I struggled getting it out of my hair after (it took three washes lol) any ideas on how to make it harder? I love the ingredients, the feel and the smell it just has the density of cold butter

    • Kelly
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      Author
      June 1, 2021 at 8:12 AM

      Yes, it should be harder. I would melt it and add more cocoa butter.

  • robin
    · Reply

    June 18, 2021 at 11:23 AM

    Hi Kelly
    After discovering the shampoo bar article I’ve naturally moved onto this one! lol Ironically I am looking forward to trying the conditioner bar and using more of it than some of the other ladies as I have thick curly natural hair which welcomes more oil! Thank you VERY much for your generosity in sharing Kelly….as soon as I saw the About You mentioning Yahweh I felt I’d found the right blog for me! God bless you!

  • Clarissa
    · Reply

    July 5, 2021 at 11:17 AM

    I’m going to be giving this recipe a shot. However, I only have soy wax on hand, can I use this in place of the beeswax?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      July 5, 2021 at 2:39 PM

      Yes you can use soy. You may need to use a little extra.

  • Stephanie
    · Reply

    December 15, 2021 at 8:50 PM

    Hi!

    I just tried this recipe but I’m finding I really don’t like the cocoa butter smell in this. What should I use as a replacement for the Cocoa Butter in this case? Would Mango Butter or Shea Butter be OK? If so, how much should I put in and is there anything else I need to adjust?

    Thank you so much for sharing!!!

    • Kelly
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      Author
      December 18, 2021 at 11:00 AM

      If you take out the cocoa butter, you’ll need to play around with the other ingredients if you want it to set up. I would add mango butter and more bees wax. This will effect the final result for your hair but I can see it still working nicely.

  • Suzanne
    · Reply

    February 28, 2022 at 5:50 PM

    This looks so good! What a fun gift to make for friends or use yourself!

  • Vanessa
    · Reply

    February 28, 2022 at 5:51 PM

    Thanks for sharing! Does it keep long?

  • Isabelle
    · Reply

    May 1, 2022 at 10:25 AM

    Hi, I want to try this soap but I don’t have argon oil, what could a replace de argon oil with?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      May 3, 2022 at 8:16 AM

      Argon really makes the difference, but you can use another oil you have on hand: coconut, avocado, etc.

  • Erin
    · Reply

    April 2, 2024 at 2:01 PM

    Hey there!

    I was wondering what the best way to store the conditioner bar is? Is it safe to leave in my shower or should I store in the refrigerator to avoid bacteria growing?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      April 2, 2024 at 2:15 PM

      If you leave it where it can dry out between uses it should be fine.

  • Julia
    · Reply

    June 3, 2024 at 12:28 PM

    I made the conditioner bars and left them over night to harden but they are still very soft, what is the try time or is there a way to remelt and add more of something to make them harder so they aren’t so mushy?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      June 4, 2024 at 7:38 AM

      Yes you can melt it again and add more cocoa butter or beeswax.

  • Rachel
    · Reply

    June 7, 2024 at 4:47 PM

    Thank you for sharing this recipe. I am allergic to cocoa butter, should I just add more mango butter to make up for it or should I do something else?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      June 7, 2024 at 4:57 PM

      Add a combination of mango butter and beeswax, otherwise it’ll be too soft.

  • Stacey
    · Reply

    June 24, 2024 at 3:12 PM

    5 stars
    My argon oil is reacting to the heat by solidfying and not mixing. It ends up somewhat clumped and leaving white marks on the outside of the bars. Any suggested brand that works better?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      June 24, 2024 at 9:16 PM

      Are you sure it’s the argon oil? It sounds more like the wax is not quite melted. I’ve never had argon oil react that way.

  • Emily
    · Reply

    July 14, 2024 at 10:32 PM

    5 stars
    Do you have weight measurements for this recipe?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      July 15, 2024 at 7:32 AM

      No, sorry. You can convert them if needed but I haven’t needed to.

  • Jennifer Taylor
    · Reply

    July 23, 2024 at 3:55 PM

    Just made them yesterday night 7/23, Still soft today (24hr later). I saw I can add more wax but I’m conflicted about wax in general. Won’t it build up on your hair?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      July 23, 2024 at 5:32 PM

      You’re right. Wax is an issue if you have hard water. Adding a little more will be moisturizing for dry thick and curly hair, but could be too much for thinner hair. You can add cocoa butter instead.

  • Sonia
    · Reply

    October 10, 2024 at 12:48 PM

    5 stars
    How many moulds is the recipe for? How many conditioners can we make in total? Thanks

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      October 11, 2024 at 6:21 PM

      This makes 4 ounces.

  • Jill
    · Reply

    January 4, 2025 at 4:02 AM

    4 stars
    What can I substitute for avocado oil?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      January 4, 2025 at 2:26 PM

      Avocado oil can be switched for olive or coconut if needed, but it won’t have the same fatty acids. It will still work though.

  • N Frantz
    · Reply

    January 4, 2025 at 5:01 PM

    4 stars
    I guess I’m use to using a scale and not using Tablespoons measurements. Could you please add to the recipe (next to Tablespoons and teaspoons) the measurements in grams? I’m not sure how anyone would get the correct amount of shea butter, bees wax or other ingredients correct unless you melted each one individually, which seems like a lot of extra work.
    Thanks in advance!!!
    N

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 4, 2025 at 6:15 PM

      Hi,
      You can do a quick internet search for conversion. And no, the recipe is not that touchy that you would need to weigh everything. No worries.

  • Emma
    · Reply

    January 30, 2025 at 5:33 AM

    4 stars
    Hello
    Should the butters (shea, mango, cocoa and argan oil) be unrefined or refined?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 31, 2025 at 8:46 AM

      When the butters are refined, they’ve been heated and sifted. As long as it’s not ultra refined so that the heat has done damage (which does happen. You can tell in the textures of the butters) then refined is ok. Unrefined is best.

  • Emma
    · Reply

    January 31, 2025 at 12:36 PM

    5 stars
    Ok, so not refined. Thanks 🙂
    Question 2. I have skin allergies to various perfumes essential oils, can I just skip the essential oil or replace it with something, if so what?

    • Emma
      · Reply

      February 11, 2025 at 11:34 AM

      4 stars
      I made this conditioner.
      It smells wonderful even without essential oils like white chocolate.

      It looks just as beautiful.

      And it is indeed very heavy even on my dry hair.

      Maybe I added too much wax.

      I will use it as a hair wax.

      You have a beautiful website and great recipes. Thank you 🙂

      • Kelly
        · Reply

        Author
        February 11, 2025 at 11:38 AM

        Definitely try the conditioner bar for all hair types! It should make the difference for your hair. https://simplelifemom.com/conditioner-bar-recipe-for-all-hair-types-natural-conditioner-bar/

  • Emma
    · Reply

    February 1, 2025 at 4:57 AM

    5 stars
    And I hope last question 😉
    What can I replace sweet almond or nut oil with in recipes?

  • Artur
    · Reply

    February 5, 2025 at 1:25 PM

    5 stars
    How do you measure the wax?
    I ask because a tablespoon of small pellets will be completely different than a tablespoon of large chunks.
    What is your wax? What size are the chunks?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      February 5, 2025 at 11:58 PM

      Just do your best to estimate the amount of a tablespoon. I cut mine from chunks as well.

  • Karen
    · Reply

    March 7, 2025 at 3:57 PM

    I have tried several recipes for conditioner bars, and I cannot get them to harden enough to use as a bar. I have tried adding beeswax and other suggestions and nothing works. Do you have any suggestions that I might try. I want to sell them. Thank you.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      March 11, 2025 at 4:38 PM

      Besides adding more harder ingredients like beeswax or cocoa butter, I’m not sure what your problem is.

  • Ashley
    · Reply

    November 19, 2025 at 7:49 PM

    5 stars
    What type of coconut oil? Solid or liquid?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      December 1, 2025 at 7:02 PM

      Regular solid coconut oil.

  • Heather
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    March 25, 2026 at 2:02 PM

    Can this be used as a leave in conditioner bar for beards?I have been looking for one

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      March 31, 2026 at 11:57 AM

      Yes, that would work wonderfully! My husband has used it with great results. He likes it better than an oil.

  • Janette
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    April 29, 2026 at 1:26 AM

    Hi could I replace the mango butter with another product?

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      May 4, 2026 at 9:20 AM

      You can use shea butter or cocoa butter in place of the mango butter if you have to.

  • Jacki
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    June 3, 2026 at 3:51 PM

    Hello! I’ve been doing some looking for a conditioner bar without BTMS-50, but everything I found said that I needed some kind of preservative in the bar. It looks like you’ve been making these for a while, and also selling them, so I’m curious if they have a short shelf-life? Or anything else I should be aware of, because this seems like the miracle recipe I’ve been looking for!

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      June 7, 2026 at 8:38 PM

      If kept cool and dry between use, they will last 3 months or so.

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