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Easy Conditioner Bar Recipe for All Hair Types

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Natural conditioner bars have been a battle for me. You can’t find any out there that don’t have toxic ingredients or questionable ingredients. There’s a reason for that. It’s hard to make a natural conditioner bar recipe without certain ingredients to make them easy for everyone to use without using too much.

I have a wonderful set of herbal rinses that work great on my hair and I have a set routine that give me shiny, bouncy hair. BUT, I really want to conquer the conditioner bar dilemma. Having a bar that does everything listed below without weighing down hair would be an exciting accomplishment. Well….I think I’ve finally got it.

I love my first conditioner bar recipe.

This is a really effective recipe that works wonders on my hair. I can use it as a gentle conditioner or apply more and use it as a deep conditioner. The problem is that a lot of people don’t have thick, curl hair like I do that tends toward being dry. If you have my hair type and know how to apply, then that recipe is for you.

But what about those with other hair types? I wanted to make a conditioner bar without all the synthetic ingredients!

Natural conditioner bar recipe for all hair types from Simple Life Mom

What’s Out There

You’re probably found this recipe because you’re looking for a conditioner bar recipe without synthetic ingredients. You want something that looks closing to how it looked on the tree, where you know the process it took to get from pod or seed to jar.

This is THE challenge!

I could use ingredients like panthenol. After all, it’s widely considered as safe. And it very well could be. The research that’s out there is limited, but what is available is promising that SOME of these synthetic ingredients are ok to use (Though, just because something is derived from coconut oil, doesn’t mean the chemicals used to extract it plus other steps don’t make it questionable in the end).

But that tears at me. I want to make this without going there. Without using BTMS, or cetyl alcohol, or unnatural preservatives. You’re probably here because you want the same thing.

So, let’s do this!

What Makes a Good Conditioner Bar Recipe?

Conditioner bars  have to do a few things to be true “conditioner” bars:

1. Balance pH

Shampoo’s are often slightly basic on the pH scale. While hair is naturally around 7.5, natural shampoo bars can be 7.5-8. They are so close to being neutral that a lot of people have no problem not using a conditioner. This also depends on your hair type and the type of water you have in your house. Nevertheless, conditioners are designed to bring the pH back to neutral by often being slightly acidic.

Finding natural ingredients that are slightly acidic is not difficult. There’s enough information available these days that putting together a relatively balanced conditioner is not as hard as it used to be (no longer simply a trial and error guessing game).

Cocoa butter is naturally slightly acidic, making it a good base to start my conditioner bar recipe.

2. Hold or Give Moisture

Conditioners should restore moisture to stripped or damaged hair and then help hair to hold onto that moisture so that it doesn’t dry out soon after drying. The difficulty is doing this without creating a bar that is so oily that it’s super difficult to sue the correct amount for shiny hair that is not weighed down or oily.

Using butters makes this easier. Cocoa butter is less heavy than some oils. Also, honey is a humectant that will hold moisture onto the hair shaft. Thus, honey becomes a very important ingredient.

3. Condition the Shaft for volume and shine

A good conditioner bar will also create a shine (through use of moisture and smoothing the hair shaft), as well healthy volume. You’ll also want a definition to bouncy curls or waves.

Most conditioners these days have a ton of synthetic ingredients to achieve this.We can do this through natural ingredients. Aloe is one that will add smoothness and shine to your hair.

4. Proteins

There area a few rumors that proteins in hair products aren’t good for you, but this seems to go against science and observation.  Adding protein is one way to strengthen hair, improve elasticity, and add curl and bounce. After all, your hair is made up of proteins. Using proteins in hair care helps to bond with those broken, damaged proteins and make them stronger (1).

You can do this with natural ingredients, but they do not last long for practical use, making a conditioner bar go bad within a day or two.

A longer lasting ingredient is to use (in order of my favorite): rice bran, whey, oat, pea or wheat protein. They need to be broken up into tiny molecules (hydrolyzed) so that they work better on your hair and in your body.

One easy short cut – protein drinks.

Just make sure the type you are using is 100% pure with no other weird ingredients. You can use it in a shake and use it in this recipe. Win-win!

Natural Conditioner Bar Recipe for All Hair Types

I did a lot of research in putting this recipe together. There are some wonderful natural recipes out there with ingredients that I don’t want to use. And frankly, those ingredients are there for a reason. With some of them, there is no good substitute.

Personally, I would rather be inconvenienced by using a spray rinse (really not an inconvenience) than use a questionable ingredient. But like I said, some are not easily replace.

Emulsifier

Emulsifiers for example. It is hard to find a natural emulsifier that lasts more than a day outside of the refrigerator. Honey or beeswax, contrary to some statements on the web, are not emulsifiers. If you add honey or aloe to butters and oils and stir it up really well and then pour into a mold, they will separate. *cough* yes I may have learned that the hard way.

But there’s a great way around that: temperatures and blending!

What you’ll end up doing with this recipe is

  1. wait until ideal temperatures(around 80 degrees Fahrenheit)
  2. blend until the mixture starts to thicken
  3. pour into the mold
  4. Place in the freezer

This blend and temperature watch with cause the ingredients to set up before separating. I’ve done this with salves, lotions, as well as this recipe. And it’s worked perfectly, not separating later or causing any problems whatsoever. Simple!

Preservatives

This bar does not have preservatives. It does contain water so it will need to be kept in a dry place between uses. It should last about 3 month. This recipe only makes two 4 ounce bars so if that is too much to use during that time then cut the recipe in half.

Nettle

I’ve added nettle to my recipe, because nettle is great for all hair types. Nettle regulates oil production, helping balance dry or oily hair. It also soothes dry and itchy scalp.

Essential Oils

Adding essential oils adds scent as well as beneficial qualities. I added lavender essential oil to this recipe because it is safe for use around even small children and is very soothing, making it great for all hair types.

Natural conditioner bar recipe for all hair types from Simple Life Mom

Natural Conditioner Bar Recipe

Printable version is at the bottom of the page.

Yield: Two 4-ounce bars

Ingredients:

  • 4 ounces cocoa butter
  • 2 Tablespoons shea butter
  • 2 Tablespoons coconut oil
  • 2 Tablespoons raw honey
  • 2 Tablespoons aloe vera
  • 1 teaspoon hydrolyzed rice bran protein
  • 1/4 teaspoon nettle leaf powder
  • 15 drops lavender essential oil

Directions:

  1. In a double boiler, add cocoa butter, shea butter, and coconut oil and melt.
  2. Add honey, aloe vera, rice bran, nettle, and essential oil and stir until combined.
  3. Pour through a cheese cloth or similar cloth into a stand mixer or mixing bowl to filter nettle leaf.
  4. Let cool until around 80 degrees Fahrenheit.
  5. Prepare mold. I used a silicone mold like this one for ease of removal. No lining or preparation needed.
  6. When color is lighter (see pictures below) and it is around 80 degrees, turn on mixer and blend until the mixture lightens and begins to slightly thicken into a creamy texture.
  7. Use a rubber spatula and scrape into molds. Smooth with the spatula if necessary.
  8. Place in a freezer until fully set.
  9. Store in a dry location.

Below are step by step pictures.

Natural conditioner bar recipe for all hair types from Simple Life Mom

Pour melted and stirred mixture into stand mixer through a cheesecloth.

Natural conditioner bar recipe for all hair types from Simple Life Mom

 Let me know if you have any questions. Here’s a printable copy for you to use.

Natural coniditioner bar recipe for all hair types from Simple Life Mom
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Conditioner Bar Recipe for All Hair Types – Natural Conditioner Bar

Prep Time10 minutes mins
Cook Time15 minutes mins
Total Time25 minutes mins
Servings: 2 four ounce bars
Author: Kelly – Simple Life Mom

Ingredients

  • 4 ounces cocoa butter
  • 2 Tablespoons shea butter
  • 2 Tablespoons coconut oil
  • 2 Tablespoons raw honey
  • 2 Tablespoons aloe vera
  • 1 teaspoon hydrolyzed rice bran protein
  • ¼ teaspoon nettle leaf powder
  • 15 drops Lavender Essential Oil

Instructions

  • In a double boiler, add cocoa butter, shea butter, and coconut oil and melt.
  • Add honey, aloe vera, rice bran, nettle, and essential oil and stir until combined.
  • Pour through a cheese cloth or similar cloth into a stand mixer or mixing bowl to filter nettle leaf.
  • Let cool until around 80 degrees Fahrenheit.
  • Prepare mold. I used a silicone mold like this one for ease of removal. No lining or preparation needed.
  • When color is lighter (see pictures below) and it is around 80 degrees, turn on mixer and blend until the mixture lightens and begins to slightly thicken into a creamy texture.
  • Use a rubber spatula and scrape into molds. Smooth with the spatula if necessary.
  • Place in a freezer until fully set.
  • Store in a dry location.

How to Use

I like to cut each 4 ounce bar in half to keep them fresher, longer.

After washing your hair, rub the conditioner bar in your hands until you have a light layer on your hands. Rub through your hair with a downward motion starting at the bottom and moving upward. Be careful not to add too much. A little goes a long way.

Rinse with hot water afterward to ensure that you don’t have too much in one place. The hot water will help the conditioner to spread throughout the hair.


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About Kelly

Kelly is the author of number one best seller The Natural Soap Making Book for Beginners and Easy Soap Making. She's also written multiple ebooks on herbal remedies and natural bath and body DIYs.Her journey toward better health has inspired her to make things in and around the home from scratch, start a homestead, and become more resourceful when it comes to health and home.She shares her recipes and DIYs here on Simple Life Mom and has a shop where she sells products for those who would rather buy than make (SimpleLifeMom.com/shop).

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  • Syndie
    · Reply

    January 27, 2020 at 7:18 AM

    Hi, I only wash my hair every 2 weeks. I was wondering if it would be okay to put my bars in the fridge, or freezer until I needed one. Just so they would last longer. I don’t think I would go through them fast enough.
    I love your newsletters!!
    Thanks

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 28, 2020 at 6:02 PM

      Yes, that will work great.

  • Neslihan Knight
    · Reply

    January 27, 2020 at 9:39 AM

    5 stars
    Hi,thank you for this recipe. Just wondering, the rice protein,could it be also the protein used for shakes as well? Can we use the same product in the conditioner bar?
    Many thanks.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 28, 2020 at 6:02 PM

      Yes, you can use the same thing. Just watch other ingredients.

      • Maria T. Newcomer
        · Reply

        January 28, 2020 at 7:12 PM

        Thank you so much! That would be very much appreciated! You are awesome!

      • Ginnia Mitra
        · Reply

        March 16, 2020 at 12:38 PM

        4 stars
        Hi loved your recipe ,is there any other substitute for hydrolized rice bran protein ?

        • Kelly
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          Author
          March 17, 2020 at 8:19 AM

          Though some are better than others, you can use any protein powder (pea, wheat, etc)

          • Chelsea Norwood

            April 6, 2021 at 9:21 PM

            Is the bar moisturizing to the hair, or have good slip when on the hair. Does it leave it soft afterwards like a regular conditioner does.

          • Kelly

            Author
            April 7, 2021 at 3:46 PM

            It is more like a deep conditioner. Use apple cider vinegar diluted 50% with water or an herbal hair rinse. I have many on my website here.

        • Kbailey
          · Reply

          August 11, 2020 at 10:29 PM

          Am i able to add food to this bar? Like avacado or banana? Trying to turn a hair smoothie into a bar without preservatives

  • Maria T. Newcomer
    · Reply

    January 27, 2020 at 9:51 AM

    5 stars
    Hi Kelly,

    I tend to struggle with conditioners too and am looking for a nice, natural, but light one. Your conditioner bar sounds perfect! I’d love to try it! Will you be selling it on Etsy anytime soon? Also, if you are willing to share, I’d LOVE to hear what shampoo bar is your favorite, what your specific routine is washing your hair, and more about which specific rinses you use? I am trying to work on a routine for my hair. Thank you so much! Hope to hear from you!

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 28, 2020 at 6:02 PM

      Maria, I can put that together for you.

      • Maria
        · Reply

        February 4, 2020 at 5:44 PM

        5 stars
        Kelly,
        Could you please? That would be such a BIG HELP to me! Thank you so much! I have recently discovered that shampoo soaps and ACV work much better for my sensitive, oily scalp than liquid shampoos. They make my scalp and hair feel cleaner longer and cause less break outs and itching. I’m so frustrated from trying different things. It’s difficult because I have a seborrheic dermatitis scalp and long, very thick, wavy, salt and pepper hair (the texture is a lot like yours). I want a simple routine. I still would like to be able to use a conditioner sometimes, but I’d prefer an all natural soap one. Will you be making and selling more condition bars in your shop soon? Let me know, please! Thanks! Could you email me your routine when you have time to write it up? My email is: prayrosary4life@gmail.com

        Thanks so much! I really appreciate it!

      • Ginnia mitra
        · Reply

        March 16, 2020 at 12:41 PM

        1. One more thing can I use tea tree essential oil or any other essential oil instead of lavender essential oil in the conditioner bar ?

        2. What is the shelf life for this conditioner bar ?

        • Kelly
          · Reply

          Author
          March 17, 2020 at 8:21 AM

          Yes you can use another essential oil. The shelf life depends on bacteria introduced, heat, whether it dries between uses.

  • Carol L
    · Reply

    January 27, 2020 at 1:10 PM

    This post is so great! You have explained in detail your reasons for using the ingredients you did and your ‘learning’ process, sharing your mistakes and why you did what you did in each step. THANK YOU!
    My hair, unfortunately, is very fine and thin, so I’m not sure this would work for me. I may make some anyway, you have explained and made the process so easy! My oldest daughter, on the other hand, has very thick wiry hair! (Go figure!) She had her own search into healthy, having struggled with health issues in college and likes to use healthy products. I’d like to gift some to her. Again, thank you for sharing your struggle with creating this conditioning bar!
    I am older (just turned 66), with, as mentioned, thin fine hair. I have been struggling lately with thinning hair. Maybe due to age or other health related issues. I have been searching for ways to help hair growth.

    Side note: Funny, you look at European women, and those from India. Neither of those places seem to have issues with thin hair. I believe that our lifestyle, and what our country allows to be used, even encouraging unhealthy ingredients in all things food, personal products and cleaning, is one reason why we Americans suffer from thin and ever thinning hair and hair loss. Also, I have thought about women from India, realizing that I have never seen one with thin hair! They all seem to have beautiful, THICK, shiny hair! I have found some of the reasons, I believe. They use certain oils regularly in hair care: specifically, Amla oil and Bhringraj oil. I found these oils on Amazon and have been using them, mostly on my eyebrows and eyelashes, (as my hair is too thin to use regularly on it) which due to age have been getting more and more pale. I have noticed a difference. One brow, had a ‘slice’ and would not grow hair at all, since childhood. It now seems to be growing hair in that one spot! ANYway, I know you only use the ingredients listed, but I may try making it with a teeny tiny amount of one or both of these oils. If I do, I’ll let you know how it turns out!

  • Pamela
    · Reply

    January 29, 2020 at 10:36 AM

    Incredibly informative, love that you do your research! Can’t wait to try. What other scent could I use that would be safe? Could I do a citrus one?

  • Jenn
    · Reply

    February 5, 2020 at 1:20 PM

    This sounds very intriguing! Thank you for the work that went into creating and sharing!

  • Margarita
    · Reply

    February 13, 2020 at 1:52 PM

    5 stars
    Me gusto mucho la receta la voy hacer
    Gracias !!

  • Terri Sidell
    · Reply

    February 18, 2020 at 1:38 PM

    5 stars
    Hi, Nice to see a recipe for a conditioner!! What could you suggest for a substitute for protein that is not a grain, and a substitute for coconut sensitivity?? Thank-you! Looking forward to your reply!!
    Sincerely,
    Terri

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      February 18, 2020 at 1:53 PM

      You can use pea protein instead. Use another oil of choice for the coconut, but keep in mind you may need to change ratios slightly since it’s a semi hard oil.

      • Terri Sidell
        · Reply

        July 22, 2020 at 5:27 PM

        Thank-you so much for your reply for protein substitute and coconut substitutes!!

  • Yohanna
    · Reply

    February 19, 2020 at 6:06 PM

    5 stars
    Hi Kelly! I’m so glad you’ve made this recipe! Ive been using BTMS to my own risk since I couldnt find before a recipe that would work, so Im really excited to try this one.

    Two questions for you though: is there an alternative to honey? I read that besides its nourishing properties it’s used as an hydrating agent, as Im vegan im wondering if vegetal glycerin could be used instead. Also, I used to make my conditioner with cetyl alcohol for detangling purposes and also to reduce the BTMS amount used, I was wondering if I could still add it as an emulsifier to reduce issues with the ‘temperature and blending’ step.

    Thanks a mill! this has been extremely useful!

    • Kelly
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      Author
      February 19, 2020 at 7:39 PM

      You can leave out the honey if you’re vegan. vegetable glycerin would be helpful.
      I’ve made this a few times and have had no need to add an emulsifier. Letting it cool enough as you blend works great for emulsifying properly.

  • Kris Cortes
    · Reply

    February 27, 2020 at 3:18 AM

    Hi!

    I love your recipe so much and I want to make some, But in my case, we don’t have nettle powder. Can this be excluded? and we don’t have hydrolyzed rice bran protein in our area, can this be replaced by Rice bran Oil?

    thanks so much and more power to you!

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      March 1, 2020 at 6:22 PM

      The rice bran protein can be left out or replaced by another powdered protein. Nettle can be left out as well, but you will be losing some of the balancing effects of the bars.

  • Sezgi Gençay
    · Reply

    March 12, 2020 at 8:01 AM

    Hi Kelly,
    I would like to know if I can use vegetable glycerin instead of aloe vera, and nettle seed oil instead of nettle leaf powder.
    Best,
    Sezgi

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      March 14, 2020 at 4:29 PM

      You can use glycerin or water in place of the aloe. If you are using nettle leaf oil, add that to the rest of your oils.

  • Micaela
    · Reply

    March 25, 2020 at 7:34 PM

    5 stars
    Thank you for the recipe!????
    But is it posible to put some natural preservatives so it can last longer?

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      March 29, 2020 at 6:55 PM

      You can tweak the recipe to use without water, so no aloe and honey, since they last a lot longer without them, but you’ll lose a great addition to the bars. I’ve been using one for a few months and it’s still fine.

      • Micaela Mulatero
        · Reply

        April 15, 2020 at 4:47 PM

        5 stars
        Thanks for answering! How many months do the conditioners last?

        • Kelly
          · Reply

          Author
          April 16, 2020 at 9:46 PM

          I haven’t kept them longer than 3 months and at that time they were still fine.

        • Carol
          · Reply

          August 4, 2025 at 3:09 AM

          I have just made the conditioner bar recipes, the basic one not the honey and aloe one. When the bar set I took it out of the mold and noticed moisture on top. When I used the conditioner in the show the bar turned to mush. I don’t know what I did wrong but I’d really appreciate your advice. Thank you.

          • Kelly

            Author
            August 4, 2025 at 8:56 PM

            The moisture is normal. That’s glycerin within the bar that can seep a little with humidity. Don’t leave the bar in the shower. Let it dry between uses. If your bar is soft, keep it in a container where you can get a little bit out at a time. Hope that helps.

  • Melissa
    · Reply

    March 28, 2020 at 6:03 PM

    5 stars
    Hi, I made this recipe and let it set in the freezer overnight. Once it defrosted I realised it didn’t set. Any advice on how I get it best to set and how long do I need to leave it in the freezer and in a cool dry place afterwards?

    Thanks for all you wonderful recipe’s.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      March 29, 2020 at 6:47 PM

      Sorry, Melissa, my first reply was in reference to if a cold process soap batch didn’t set up! My confusion for how I see my comments in a list, sorry. If it didn’t set up then did it separate? If it did then you need to whip it more before pouring. You can also heat lightly and add more beeswax and/or cocoa butter to help it harden after cooling.

      • Duke
        · Reply

        April 25, 2020 at 3:48 AM

        Hi friend,
        I wanted to clarify some information just in case I’m missing something here- and I want to be sure before I start!
        In your blog post & recipe you say to put these bars to set in the freezer. But in this reply you say you’ve never put a batch in the freezer- Should we disregard freezer and put our bars to set in the fridge instead? Or am I taking your response out of a specific context?
        Please advise! Thank you very much for your time and energy, I’m really excited to try out this recipe.

        • Kelly
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          Author
          April 26, 2020 at 9:28 AM

          Sorry, I just read my response and it was for cold process soap not setting up, not conditioner. I do advise you to put it in the freezer to cool quickly before it has time to separate.

  • sabine kussmaul
    · Reply

    March 31, 2020 at 1:04 AM

    Hello Kelly,
    this sounds a super recipe. I am looking for an alternative to shop bought conditioner bars or liquid because I am allergic to more or less all fragrances, also such that are included in essential oils. But, …essential oils can be left out… it might seem.
    So here are some questions I have in regards to this:
    1. The aloe vera gel that you use…. I am not sure if that might contain fragrances too (I have a tube at home and it does not smell much at all….). … is it needed for the functionality of the bars? And is any aloe vera gel good? 2. Raw honey …. what is the difference to ‘normal’ honey and does it matter….could I use normal honey? 3. I assume I could leave out the lavender oil if that is what might cause my reactions….?

    Thanks a lot for sharing it. I have some questions in regards to some ingredients

    • Kelly
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      Author
      March 31, 2020 at 7:59 AM

      You should use a whole leaf aloe Vera gel or liquid with little to no other ingredients. Just check your list for purity.
      You can use the honey you have on hand. I say raw because if it doesn’t say raw it’s often mixed with other Sugars to save the company money.
      You can leave out the essential oils.

    • melanie roumi
      · Reply

      July 27, 2020 at 7:17 PM

      Hello, I really like this recipe, i just wanted to know if you do not filter out the nettle leave powder, does it matter? Also the bar was nice but almost melting to the touch, is that normal?
      Thank you,
      Melanie

      • Kelly
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        Author
        August 8, 2020 at 2:19 PM

        Mine are always harder than that, so I’m not sure about the softness you’re experiencing. You can leave the nettle in, no problem. You’ll get more benefit. But you can filter it out if you’d like a smoother texture.

        • Nady Holley
          · Reply

          July 6, 2021 at 1:44 AM

          5 stars
          Hi Kelly
          I love this recipe!
          When I made it though mine was also quite soft , can it be rectified by adding more cocoa butter?
          Thank you
          Nady?

          • Kelly

            Author
            July 6, 2021 at 8:30 AM

            Yes you can

  • Meredith
    · Reply

    March 31, 2020 at 7:41 PM

    5 stars
    Can you use grapefruit seed extract to help preserve? If so, what ratio should I use? I don’t have pure aloe Vera gel, it is a natural skin product but the first ingredient is aloe Vera gel. Do you think this is still safe to use? Or should I just exclude the aloe Vera? What can I add instead, suggestions?

    What is the pH of this recipe? I found all of the other ingredients without any issues!

    • Kelly
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      Author
      April 7, 2020 at 4:51 PM

      Again, if you’re using it yourself and not selling it, just make a few bars and they will be fine for a few months. Mine sat in the shower and was just dried between uses but was wet daily and it stayed perfect until it was fully use.
      You can add rosemary essential oil and grapefruit extract. Both slow mold growth and slow oxidation of oils. Just a few drops of each.
      As long as the other ingredients in the aloe gel you have are healthy ingredients then I would go ahead and use it if it were me.
      The recipe is only slightly acidic, which makes it perfect for the slightly basic condition of natural soap bars.

  • Lee Ann
    · Reply

    April 9, 2020 at 12:39 PM

    5 stars
    Is this recipe suitable to use in Asia country like Malaysia? As our weather is hot for the whole year.

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      April 11, 2020 at 1:37 PM

      Sure. Just make a small batch so that it doesn’t sit around for months at a time. Keep in a cooler, dry location when not in use.

  • Agnija
    · Reply

    April 12, 2020 at 5:46 AM

    5 stars
    Hi!

    I have Rise protein in liquid form, will that work or should I use something powdered?

    Thank you so much!

    • Kelly
      · Reply

      Author
      April 13, 2020 at 4:12 PM

      I’m not sure without knowing exactly what you have. If it’s just hydrolyzed rice protein then you should be able to use it.

  • Teresa F.
    · Reply

    April 13, 2020 at 9:27 AM

    5 stars
    Hi … I am a novice soap maker (cold pressed) … and just wondering what the difference is between using lye or not … Obviously I would rather not use it but just wondering why there are recipes with it and others without it..

    Many thanks..
    Teresa F. (Greece)

    • Kelly
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      Author
      April 13, 2020 at 4:11 PM

      Lye is used to change oil molecules into soap molecules. You can’t make soap without it. If you’re concerned about safety, often cleaners in the household are just as strong. If you’re concerned about it being an ingredient in soap, then don’t be because soap makers do something called “superfatting” the soap so that there is more oil than lye can convert (usually 5-15%) so that 100% of the lye is converted into soap and none is left as an ingredient in the soap (and you have a little oil leftover making it a moisturizing cleanser.
      If you see a melt and pour recipe without lye, then soap has already been made for you. You’re just melting it, not making soap.
      Hope that answers your question.

  • Deb
    · Reply

    April 22, 2020 at 8:02 AM

    Hello, just wondering what the shelf life would be if I made in bulk (say 12 bars)

  • Daniela Vadehra
    · Reply

    May 3, 2020 at 3:17 PM

    5 stars
    I tried the bar as well as my daughter. I think I left it in the freezer too long, so it partly unmeldted with defrosting BUT it is actually the first bar that reall works on my her and also hers, nice shine, no grease…great recipe

    • Kelly
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      Author
      May 5, 2020 at 7:59 AM

      That’s wonderful that it works so well with your hair. Most likely it’s not the defrosting that liquefied a part of it, though it could have sweat a little. But probably it wasn’t whipped enough before putting in the freezer. I’m glad the ingredients work so well with your hair. 🙂

  • Val Daniels
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    May 20, 2020 at 12:24 PM

    Can you tell me how it does for de-tangling the hair? I too have curly hair that seems to be on the drier side but it is also thinner.

    • Kelly
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      May 30, 2020 at 8:32 PM

      It works great for detangling. I use a small amount on my hands in the shower and run my fingers through my hair starting at the ends and it does really well with detangling.

  • Mahnoor
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    May 31, 2020 at 12:26 PM

    I was wondering if you have a youtube channel?

    • Kelly
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      May 31, 2020 at 1:31 PM

      I do. I haven’t put much up on it recently, but there are some how to videos there. https://www.youtube.com/user/simplelifemom

  • irina
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    June 1, 2020 at 1:08 AM

    How are oils removed from hair? After all, they are very fatty according to this recipe

    • Kelly
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      June 3, 2020 at 10:31 AM

      Correct. It is used as a conditioner to finely coat the hair to re-establish oils, balance, and close hair shafts. If too much is used your hair will be greasy. I use in the shower and avoid any problems. There is another recipe that you can use as well: https://simplelifemom.com/2020/01/26/conditioner-bar-recipe-for-all-hair-types-natural-conditioner-bar/

  • Marcella Andrade Lemos Silva
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    June 5, 2020 at 9:26 AM

    4 stars
    Hi!
    First of all: thanks for sharing your recipes!
    I got a little confused with some information I found here
    You wrote in the other post -“Conditioner Bar Recipe”: For example, cocoa butter is very alkaline, so if you want to add it to a recipe, you’ll need to add more acidic ingredients like shea butter and bees wax.”
    But in this post you wrote:
    “Cocoa butter is naturally slightly acidic, making it a good base to start my conditioner bar recipe.”
    So, I got a little a confused…

    • Kelly
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      Author
      June 6, 2020 at 11:45 AM

      Sorry. I was speaking of dutch processed cacao. I will edit and clarify that. Cocoa butter is naturally slightly acidic.

  • abigail thomas
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    June 6, 2020 at 4:39 PM

    Hi,
    I’ve just tried making these but the mixture has split when setting.

    Can I melt them and try mixing it again?
    I think I may not have done the final mix for long enough.

    • Kelly
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      June 7, 2020 at 9:43 PM

      Yes you can.

  • Tonya
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    July 8, 2020 at 8:31 AM

    Hi Kelly! I noticed a lot of these reviews hadn’t made the recipe, so I didn’t see anything on this. I did every step as indicated in the instructions, (waited until milky/80 degrees to mix and pour) yet when I pulled these out of the freezer, they had separated completely. Any idea on what could be causing this and how to rectify? I guess I’ll still try to use them, but super bummed.

    • Kelly
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      July 9, 2020 at 4:43 PM

      Sorry they separated on you. I just made them recently and didn’t have any problem so I’m not sure what could have given you problems. Possibly one of your ingredients…

  • michelle
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    August 6, 2020 at 4:42 PM

    how long does it take to whip? i whipped it for over 10 minuets and it looks a little gritty

    • Kelly
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      August 8, 2020 at 1:48 PM

      It should only take a few minutes at the most. You may have had the mixture too hot before whipping. Make sure everything is fully melted and smooth and allow to cool until it looks creamy.

  • Jill
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    August 17, 2020 at 6:38 PM

    I made the bar as you suggested. It never became super creamy. When I poured the mixer into the molds and put in the freezer, it became hard. After removing from the mould, they became soft quickly.
    Ant ideas?

    • Kelly
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      August 25, 2020 at 11:08 AM

      It sounds like you put it in the freezer too soon. Did it separate?

  • Michelle
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    August 25, 2020 at 4:20 PM

    Hi, where did you get your hydrolized rice bran protein? And is it a liquid or powder?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      August 25, 2020 at 5:17 PM

      I used a powder that was a health protein powder.

  • Wendy Bevan
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    August 25, 2020 at 7:12 PM

    5 stars
    Hi, Just came across your conditioner bar recipe. It sounds great. I am going to give it a try. A couple of questions; Do you think it would be ok to use Hydrolyzed silk protein in place of the Rice Bran? And also is there something I could use as a substitute of the Nettle powder? Thank you so much. Wendy from New Zealand

    • Kelly
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      August 29, 2020 at 8:49 PM

      You can leave the nettle out if you need to. And yes, the silk protein will work wonderfully.

    • Savanna
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      September 7, 2021 at 5:24 PM

      Can I substitute the cocoa butter?

      • Kelly
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        Author
        September 8, 2021 at 4:47 PM

        You can use mango butter or other hard butter instead, but cocoa butter adds a lot of hardness to the bars. You’ll have to play around with how much beeswax you may need to add to maintain hardness.

  • Karen
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    August 26, 2020 at 8:28 AM

    Is there a way to make this in a cream or lotion type consistency?

    Thank you Karen

    • Kelly
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      Author
      August 29, 2020 at 8:47 PM

      A little bit goes a very long way. You can make it thinner by adding more of a liquid ingredient, but you’ll have to be careful with the amount used.

  • Jamie
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    August 27, 2020 at 4:29 PM

    4 stars
    Hi! Great recipe! I have an allergy to honey. Any substitute for this?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      August 29, 2020 at 8:44 PM

      You can replace it with castor oil.

  • Rena
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    September 30, 2020 at 6:27 PM

    Just curious, if you don’t have Aloe Vera, what would make a good substitution?

  • Nicole Stephen
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    October 7, 2020 at 6:30 AM

    Hi Kelly, just wondered if this would be safe to use on a dog?

    • Kelly
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      October 11, 2020 at 6:15 PM

      Yes. I’m not sure why you’d want to use a conditioner bar on a dog though. Cocoa butter is not good in large quantities if dogs eat it.

  • Loon
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    October 12, 2020 at 1:18 PM

    I love rhassoul clay and wonder if I can add it to a conditioning bar. I currently make a hair mask with rhassoul, silk aminos, coconut kefir, aloe juice, various herbs/essential oils, honey. I would love to make a bar with these ingredients. Will the rhassoul and oils/butters mix? And how much rhassoul do you think I can I use?

    • Kelly
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      October 13, 2020 at 5:37 PM

      Clays and waters work much better than clays and oils. I would add 1 teaspoon to the aloe and make sure it’s mixed well before adding to the other ingredients.

  • Lindsay Geerts
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    October 19, 2020 at 1:18 PM

    Hi Kelly thanks for the recipy, it looks good and happy it is all natural ingredients. I am excited to try it 🙂 One question left: I see you use nettle leaf powder, and next you filter it out. Is this filtering step necessary? Or why do you do this? Are there other powders you could advice adding? Thank you so much

    • Kelly
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      October 20, 2020 at 8:38 AM

      I sometimes do a leave in conditioner method so I like to filter it out, but you definitely don’t have to. You could add powdered peppermint for scalp stimulation, or rosemary. I’ve heard Amla is good for hair, but I haven’t looked into it that much.

  • Sheryl
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    December 19, 2020 at 6:17 PM

    Hi Kelly,
    I tried making the bars and followed the recipe faithfully (I added hemp protein, instead). I used a candy thermometer to get the temperature right before ai beat it. It looked great going into the molds, but it will not set and is the consistency of play dough. I have had it in the freezer for 8 hours. I am willing to melt it all down to try and salvage the mix (that’s a lot of money in ingredients out the window). What do you suggest I try to fix it?

    • Kelly
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      December 21, 2020 at 4:25 PM

      I would add more cocoa butter. There are enough people getting that consistency that I’m going to rework this recipe so that it’s 100% every time.

  • Sharon Cramer
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    December 22, 2020 at 2:26 PM

    3 stars
    I have really fine, long hair, and this was much too oily for my hair. And, it took several shampoos to get it out! The recipe cooked up just as advertised, and the bars were fairly solid if soft. It appears to have a really low melting temp. I plan on combining it with a scrub material and using it as a face scrub! I did get my hydrolyzed rice bran from bulk apothecary and was surprised to see it was a liquid oil. Perhaps that is the issue? Anyway, I am still in search of a great bar conditioner that will detangle, condition and not weigh down fine hair.

  • Candice
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    December 27, 2020 at 6:23 PM

    Hi Kelly!

    Love your detail and research on this recipe. Can you do a YouTube video on how you make it?!?!?!? That would help tremendously. I would love to try it and want to get good results as money is lighter these days and want a good result.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      December 29, 2020 at 3:55 PM

      I’ll work on that, for sure.

  • Naomi
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    January 26, 2021 at 7:41 AM

    Hi,
    I’m curious to know, as this is mostly cocoa butter how does it not melt or turn to mush as soon as hot/warm water is on it?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 31, 2021 at 9:11 PM

      Don’t put it under hot water. Just apply a little to your hands.

  • Barb
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    March 27, 2021 at 3:27 AM

    So happy to find this recipe. I make shampoo bars snd customers are asking for conditioner bars. You say aloe vera in your recipe…that comes in many forms, juice, gel, extract….which one would b used in this recipe? Thanks

    • Kelly
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      Author
      March 27, 2021 at 3:41 PM

      Gel or extract will work.

  • Michelle Rawbone
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    May 1, 2021 at 10:38 AM

    MY CONDITIONER BARS do not make like a creamy feel but an oily feel what am I doing wrong? and it does not rinse off easily Michelle

  • Heather Brunet
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    June 5, 2021 at 4:46 PM

    I can’t wait to try this recipe! I have some hemp seed protein powder, and was wondering if I could use it in place of the rice bran protein. I have everything else, except the nettle which I have on order to come in for another recipe. Thanks in advance!

    • Kelly
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      Author
      June 6, 2021 at 3:24 PM

      I believe hemp seed protein would work very well.

  • Gabriela
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    August 12, 2021 at 3:11 PM

    Hi! I really like this recipe but I am allergic to aloin is there anything I can replace it with?

  • Ellen
    · Reply

    December 22, 2021 at 10:34 AM

    Hi! My hair feels greasy and I see that you said I’m using too much. My hair gets very tangled and has rats (is that what people still call them?) so I like to comb through my conditioner while still in the shower. I use a very wide tooth comb and could barely get the comb through. Any thoughts? Do you have a detangle spray recipe?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      December 27, 2021 at 4:16 PM

      If you need more, I’d use the diluted apple cider vinegar as a conditioner and then the conditioner bar on the ends of your hair and lightly throughout. It sounds like you may have hard water as well.

  • Marie Raven
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    December 28, 2021 at 10:08 AM

    5 stars
    Hello, I was wondering what your research would say about using Sunflower lectin as an emulsifier. Is there a particular reason to avoid it or reason that it wouldn’t work here?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      December 31, 2021 at 10:26 PM

      i haven’t used it, so I can’t say, but it seems like it would be effective from what I know about it. I’d have to do more research.

  • Susen
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    January 10, 2022 at 8:43 AM

    5 stars
    I’m in love with this bar. 1st tried a conditioner bar made with beeswax, oh boy gross. I have very thick, baby fine hair & not matter how little I used & how long I left it on, I was a walking candle. Too heavy for my fine hair, possibly ok for a hot oil treatment. So after much more searching, found your site & your conditioner bar was aamazing. I just added some rosemary oil to extend shelf life & it does wonders fir your scalp & hair.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 10, 2022 at 5:29 PM

      Great to hear! Thanks for sharing with us.

  • Jodi Smits Anderson
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    April 5, 2022 at 3:22 PM

    I made these bars and tried one this morning. I am hoping I just overdid. My hair was a mess, very oily and sticky and I could not rise it out. I had to get back into the shower after breakfast and wash my hair a few times to get close to ok.
    Jury’s not out, yet, like I said I may have overall,ied, but I thought it was important to share. I will try again, with an extremely light application, and see where this goes.
    It feels much more like deep conditioning, and may not be suitable for anything like a daily use.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      April 5, 2022 at 8:49 PM

      Yes, you definitely used too much. I hope you find the balance.

    • Jodi
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      April 19, 2022 at 6:33 PM

      3 stars
      Hey, this is Jodi again.

      I did retry this conditioner, using a very, very light application. My hair is down to my waist and cobweb fine.

      I just ran my hands over the bar, once, then ran my hands through my hair. I then let hot water run over my hair to rinse well, and to soak in the conditioner. I can still brush out my hair even when wet, and it is not fly-a-way, and not waxy.

      I love this conditioner. Thank you. The key is a very light application.

  • Abby
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    May 3, 2022 at 8:11 AM

    Hi Kelly,
    I’m wondering if I could make this without any of the rice protein (or other protein), because I don’t have any, and don’t know that I’ll have time to get any before I make this, as I need it in short order. What are your thoughts? Thanks!

    • Kelly
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      May 3, 2022 at 8:15 AM

      You can use rice protein. I have once before and it worked out ok. It’s a little different, but still beneficial.

  • Christine
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    March 11, 2024 at 8:39 AM

    4 stars
    I love this recipe. However my bars are soften quickly out of the fridge or freezer. Is there a way to help them be a little harder? What would you suggest? I was thinking of rather than making them into bars, I pour the conditioner into a screw top container to dip my fingers in to get the small amount I need. Although I prefer having it a bar. Any suggestions will be appreciated!

    • Kelly
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      Author
      March 11, 2024 at 8:55 AM

      If you want a harder bar, you can melt them and add a little more cocoa butter. This will make them harder, but you’ll still be able to get what you need off of them. Try not to add too much so that you don’t mess up the balance, but a little is fine.

  • Mirela
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    July 10, 2024 at 12:23 AM

    Hi Kelly, i really love your work. Thank you for all you do.

    is it possible to swap coconut oil with beef- tallow ? Acid composition may vary but i prefer a tallow -based conditioner.

    Thank you.

    Soapy regards 🙂

    • Kelly
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      Author
      July 16, 2024 at 9:55 AM

      True, yes you can. It shouldn’t change the hardness very much.

  • abbey
    · Reply

    September 11, 2024 at 11:54 PM

    Hi
    Can I use beetroot powder instead of rice bran?
    I can’t find it anywhere in NZ

    • Kelly
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      Author
      September 13, 2024 at 9:23 AM

      No, beetroot powder doesn’t have the same proteins as rice bran. You can make it without it though.

  • Ashla
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    December 31, 2024 at 1:00 PM

    What would be the difference if I infused the oils and butters with the nettle before I added the other ingredients.
    Would it work the same just with a higher concentration of the oils and nutrients from the nettle ?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      January 4, 2025 at 2:29 PM

      Not really much of a difference besides steep time. You’ll already be adding the nettle to hot oils which will extract faster than cold extraction, but if you want to have a longer infusion before, that’s great too.

  • Juliana
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    March 4, 2025 at 8:54 AM

    5 stars
    Hi, sorry! Something went wrong with my previous comment. So here I go again. I bought all the ingredients to make the recipe above, but I’m worried because the ingredient measurements aren’t in grams or ounces, which makes it hard to get the exact amounts right. Is there any problem with going over or missing a little of an ingredient? Also, once I dissolve and mix the oils, can I start beating with the mixer until it reaches the right temperature to pour into the mold? I appreciate your attention. Thanks for the recipe.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      March 4, 2025 at 10:15 PM

      Yes, this is a no fuss recipe. Regular measuring spoons is accurate enough and you can begin whipping after you get everything mixed.

  • Allyssa
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    March 30, 2025 at 9:45 AM

    Could you use collagen powder for the protein? I don’t have a problem using the rice bran powder but since it only calls for a tiny amount i wouldn’t it up fast enough as all the bags i found a larger amounts.

    • Kelly
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      Author
      March 30, 2025 at 11:55 AM

      I understand. There’s not much research with collagen proteins but the amino acids/ peptides are considered beneficial, so if it were me I’d definitely give it a try.

  • MMB
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    June 19, 2025 at 3:53 AM

    For the conditioner bar, can we put them in moulds before putting it in the freezer to solidify? And won’t it melt when we remove from the freezer?

    • Kelly
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      June 23, 2025 at 8:59 PM

      Yes, put them in molds first. No, they won’t melt after removing them. Putting them in the freezer just helps them solidify before separating.

  • Lora Walters
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    January 12, 2026 at 6:31 PM

    How long do you leave it in the freezer? Thank you

    • Kelly
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      January 13, 2026 at 5:40 PM

      Just until it is set up really well.

  • Sumatra Tonic
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    March 24, 2026 at 2:17 AM

    I just tried this conditioner bar recipe, and I love it! It’s so easy to make, and my hair feels so soft and manageable. Thank you for sharing such a fantastic, eco-friendly solution! Can’t wait to experiment with different essential oils next time!

  • Janelle
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    March 24, 2026 at 7:02 PM

    Where is the water listed in the ingredients? How much water do you recommend for this recipe?

    • Kelly
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      Author
      March 31, 2026 at 11:58 AM

      It’s not a saponified bar so you don’t need water or lye.

  • Sherry
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    March 28, 2026 at 9:41 AM

    Since most of the comments are about the softness of these bars, would it be better to just pour into containers instead of a mold, then put in the freezer to set? Since you’re only using a small amount, wouldn’t you be able to finger scoop a little from the container or do you think it would be set too hard?

    • Kelly
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      March 31, 2026 at 11:56 AM

      The problems some people are having is with a malleable bar, but not liquid. You wouldn’t be able to get it out of a bottle, but a large mouth container would work if you find it slightly soft. I’d recommend only doing that if you have problems though. Mine always come out hard.

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