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11 Best Teas for Sleep – Fighting Insomnia and Anxiety

Posted by Kelly Medicinal Herbs, Natural Health 7 comments
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We are notorious for wanting a quick fix. Give me something that will instantly make me feel better, be fit, be happy, relieved from all stress, organized, and satisfied. In truth, all of those things are complex and require work.

For example, happiness, joyfulness, being satisfied, and better dealing with stress happens for those who fully give their lives to Yahweh and trust in Him throughout every day. But this is a daily task.

11 Best Teas for Sleep - fighting insomnia and anxiety by Simple Life Mom

First Things First

Using the best teas for sleep to fight insomnia and anxiety is a great tool, but it’s just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to getting better sleep.

I assume you are finding out why you have anxiety and starting with minimizing that first and asking God how you can be at peace.

If you are not sleeping, then first rule out other factors stopping you from getting a good night’s sleep:

  1. Is your bedroom temperature cool?
    • Studies have found that cooler temperatures help you sleep better.
  2. Are you going to bed early enough?
    • If you go to bed at midnight or later you will get very little deep sleep, causing you to have less time in skin and health rejuvenation sleep.
  3. Are you using your bed mostly for sleep?
    • Having meals and watching tv in bed trains your body to stay awake. Train yourself to sleep when in bed!
  4. Are you sleeping comfortably?

11 Best Teas for Sleep

So, on with the teas!

Do you want a tea that helps you relax, soothes nerves, or gets rid of headaches or joint pain? Choose which herb works best for your needs and even consider combining herbs for a tasty, effective tea.

Pay attention to how you feel. If it’s not working for you, try something different. Sometimes a tea can work wonderfully, but have side effects that don’t effect you for a week or more.

Make sure they are all ok for you if you are on any medications or if you are pregnant.

11 Best Teas for Sleep - fighting insomnia and anxiety by Simple Life Mom

1) Lemon Balm (Melissa officinalis)

Lemon balm is calming to the nervous system.  It has a pleasant lemon taste, which is a nice bonus for a tea that can calm heart palpitations and calm restlessness. Find it here.

2) Blue Vervain (Verbena hastata)

Blue Vervain (also called Wild Hyssop) is a common north American plant, often found in moist areas. Externally it has been used to help wounds heal faster. Leaves, flowers, and roots are edible. As a tea it is relaxing and helps to calm nerves. It’s not recommended for pregnant women or those on blood pressure medication, but is used for nursing mothers who have a difficult time producing enough milk. Find it Here.

3) Chamomile (Matricaria chamomilla)

Chamomile is a very mild herb that is traditionally used for sleeplessness. Its calming effects on the nervous system and digestive tract are well known.

It is in the ragweed family. If you know you are allergic to ragweed you may be able to use a small amount of chamomile in your tea to help inoculate you, but you should be careful so that you do not have a reaction. Find it Here.

11 Best Teas for Sleep - fighting insomnia and anxiety from Simple Life Mom

 

4) Passionflower (Passiflora incarnata)

Passionflower is a mild herb that helps reduce anxiety, muscle tension, and insomnia. It has also been used to help reduce hot flashes. I have read that this should not be used by people on anti-depressant medication. Otherwise, it is considered mild enough for children or elderly. Find it Here.

 

5) Valerian Root (Valeriana officinalis)

Valerian is the King of herbs for insomnia! It’s calming and helps the mind to stop racing and get ready for sleep. Find it Here.

 

6) Lavender (Lavandula angustifolia)

Lavender is very mild (mild enough for children and elderly), and yet most people have great results with insomnia by drinking a lavender tea before bed. I’m not a fan of the taste, but like with most herbs, combining it with another herbs greatly enhances the taste. Find it Here.

 

7) Lemongrass (Cymbopogon citratus)

Lemongrass has sedative properties that can really improve sleep quality so that when you do fall asleep you sleep better. Find it Here.

 

8) Spearmint (Mentha spicata)

Spearmint is often used in sleep teas because of the added flavor, but also because it can settle your stomach and relieve headaches so that you can fall asleep more easily. Find it Here.

 

9) Linden Leaf (Tilia cordata)

Linden leaf is also used for insomnia, but don’t drink too much or you’ll be up all night needing to pee. Adding a little to your tea before bed is very effective though. It is calming and a mild sedative. Find it Here.

 

10) Magnolia Bark (Magnolia officinalis)

Magnolia Bark is anti-bacterial and anti-inflammatory. It has been used traditionally against allergies, stress, anxiety, and insomnia. It helps you fall asleep faster, as well as produce more deep sleep and REM. Find it Here.

 

11) St. John’s Wort (Hypericum perforatum)

St. John’s Wort helps to uplift and calm so you can get better sleep. I can cause photosensitivity over time, so be careful if you drink it daily. Find it Here.

**Also, if you like to use essential oils, try diffusing vetiver at night. I have first-hand experience of its great effects for calming the mind and relaxing one to sleep. I highly recommend it.


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  • Deb K
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    December 31, 2018 at 9:05 AM

    Kelly,

    I looked up valerian root essential oil as you said you use it in your diffuser at night and it helps calm the racing mind. That’s what I experience at times, so I was interested. But, I read that the oil smells like dirty socks….having been a hockey mom, that sounds awful! What do you do about the scent of the oil? Thanks for your suggestions! Deb

    • Kelly
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      December 31, 2018 at 9:57 AM

      It’s vetiver, not valerian (Blue vervain is great as a tea too).
      Vetiver is what I use as an essential oil. It’s a woodsy scent that I actually really like.
      Thats my fault. I mixed up the v’s. But I put a note about vetiver at the end. Thanks.

  • Carol L
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    January 1, 2019 at 10:50 PM

    Just a question: my adult daughter has vivid nightmares. do any of these help with that issue? I’d like to help her get some good sleep, but don’t want her to experience dreams she maybe can’t wake from. I’d like her to be able to just go to sleep and NOT dream at all.
    She usually has several per night and can remember them in complete detail in the morning, even days later.

    • Kelly
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      January 2, 2019 at 6:39 PM

      That’s hard. You really want to enhance deep sleep. I do know that deep sleep occurs when you get to bed earlier (before 11pm). A lot of dreaming occurs toward morning. Maybe trying to go to sleep earlier and waking up earlier may help.
      I know different foods can really enhance dreams as well (like chocolate), so I would look into that to eliminating the possibility.
      I’ve had great success with diffusing vetiver. It really calms a racing mind, so it may work to help calm her dreams. The other teas above that mention calming nerves or anxiety may also help.

  • Sara Ramírez
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    July 29, 2019 at 3:00 PM

    Hi. I would also like to add soursop leaf tea to the list – has done wonders for my sleep.

  • Robb
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    September 8, 2019 at 10:06 AM

    Hi Kelly, I’m currently drinking Holy Basil tea which works great. It works by lowering Cortisol levels (the stress hormone) making falling asleep a piece of cake!

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